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Chinese Relationship Building 101 - Online Connections    

By John Abbot
2318 Views | 8 Comments | 7/6/2015 11:45:13 AM

Spend your time online doing something positive, like dating a great Chinese Love Match!

NOTE: we're going to start posting items here once a day that may have some valuable meaning, may be damned funny, or may just give you something to think about. This one is one of the "Something to Think About" category of posts.



Online Connections



Use your time online building a relationship with a great Chinese woman, not tearing down the relationships you already have.  



Seriously, everyday, everywhere you turn, people are blindly peering into their cellphones doing whatever, and ignoring the people that are closest to them.



Don't let these kids be your kids.  



Meanwhile, when you really have nothing important to do or no one important to be with, you can make genuine and lasting connections on CLM. Make your time online count!



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#2015-07-06 13:09:25 by melcyan @melcyan

I love the photos!

"everyday, everywhere you turn, people are blindly peering into their cellphones doing whatever, and ignoring the people that are closest to them."

So true!

The same can be said about relationship building by some people seeking an online relationship. They are so focussed on starting an online relationship that they neglect the daily relationships around them. Effort put into improving daily relationships is definitely time well spent. The better your relationships are with family, friends and peers the greater your chance of success in establishing a successful relationship with a person you have met online.

#2015-07-08 11:54:04 by Anniehow @Anniehow

I am copying these photos. Very creative!

Mark, so true! I think a lot people resort to online communicating to escape the reality. When they have to face it,they bail. We have to use the tool of Internet wisely.

#2015-07-08 22:27:16 by QinQL @QinQL

If the child was my daughter in the photos, she would come up and remind me with the words ”mom, look at me” , then showed me what she had drawn or written or her face or her hands or her feet or something else. Once i turned back to my phone or computer, might pass two seconds, a voice from her would come again:

“Mom, look at me!”

We had repeated it times. It is amazing that she was able to always keep in a calm and peace voice without any boring with me! So i gave up. I had kept my eyes on her as longer as i could. We have had the most happiest time together.

Till now, as she has grown up enough to be alone, she seemed have a little change, “Mom, it is better to keep a distance with me, i need time and space to think and stay with myself without you!”

oh, I see, it is time for me to spend my time online doing something positive, like dating a great Chinese Love Match as our Mr. John is telling us.

#2015-07-09 14:37:06 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@QinQL - not to worry about your daughter wanting time apart from you. She will be back soon enough when she realizes how expensive it is out there. (wasntme)

Meanwhile, you should definitely be spending your time dating a great match here on CLM. You are one of the best catches we've ever had, so someone is bound to sweep you up if you just give him a chance.

You too, @AnnieHow. Don't be so lazy! (Your words, not mine!)

#2015-07-09 18:58:45 by Barry1 @Barry1

@Anniehow
@JohnAbbot
@QinQL

"QinQL.... You are one of the best catches we've ever had, so someone is bound to sweep you up if you just give him a chance...... You too, AnnieHow."

Let me say that I wholeheartedly agree with you, John.

Both QinQL and Anniehow are amazingly good catches for some lucky man.

The mind boggles why they haven't been snapped up already?

In any case, most certainly I do wish them both the very best of good fortune. The man of their dreams must surely be rapidly approaching and true happiness cannot be far away for either of these lovely and highly intelligent ladies. (y)(sun)(y)

#2015-07-10 00:49:02 by QinQL @QinQL

@JohnAbbot - Thanks for your care and courage. Yes, I think i could find my Mr. Right here on CLM :) i would definitely be spending my time dating a great match here on CLM. It is what you suggested to me, to our female members, too.

How warm the words " She will be back soon enough when she realizes how expensive it is out there"! Thank you again.

#2015-07-10 13:12:44 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@QinQL - I wish you the best with your search, and with everything you do in life. You really are special to all of us here on CLM, and we agree with @Barry1 that it really is mind boggling that you and AnnieHow "haven't been snapped up already?".

I think it is because you've been busier taking care for other members and watching over the class, at the expense of actively "dating" here. But that's just more evidence that you are a great match for some very fortunate man.

I know that your time is just around the corner and that when you meet him, he will quickly realize just how lucky he is to have found you. Cheers, to you. (clap)

#2015-07-11 23:11:17 by QinQL @QinQL

@Barry1

@JohnAbbot

What you both best wishes light my whole day! Thank you very much!

We won’t be snapped up, we need some time to find and meet someone as you have had done for yourself.

@JohnAbbot - you seem have known your students very well and given helps when we need. We could always feel warm around you in the class. I feel very lucky to be one of them. You are really a good teacher in our heart. I have no reasons not to be a good student and I am willing to do all for our class as I can. It also will help me as you said that is just more evidence that I am a great match for some very fortunate man. Help other, help myself. I believe it.

Thank you again.(h)

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