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我出世在一个美丽的国家,经历了动荡的时代和历史的变迁,终于回到了祖国。当岁月积淀女人的智慧与理性,我终于剥下华丽与虚荣,学会积累生活和人生的体悟,我在这里与大家分享生活的心灵感悟,感悟人生的真谛。I was born in a beautiful country, Vietnam, and lived through the turbulent era and the history of changes, then finally returned to the Mother China. With years of accumulated wisdom and feminine rationality,I finally peeled off the gorgeous and vanity. I am here to share with you inspiration, love, hope and thankfulness and their role in understanding the depth and true meaning of life.
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Marriage Is Second Life of the Women's 婚姻是女人的第二次生命    

By Xin73
3793 Views | 3 Comments | 7/20/2012 1:58:18 PM

Some people say that women have three lives, one is given by their parents, a husband, a child is given. Marriage, the impact on women's life is self-evident. Marriage give to woman is a state of life, a quality of life, a life experience, a way of life. What kind of mentality to decide what kind of life attitude, what kind of way to decide what kind of marriage gold content.

Marriage makes women to start a new life, it is women's second life. the woman in the life the most important than marriage, happiness and sorrow, patience and gratified, gain and lose, often in marriage be related by flesh and blood, interoperability, can not be separated. People often say: "the woman is born well, inferior to marry well". women marry well under half a lifetime is also good, otherwise,tragic days will be endless. At this time, men may come out blamed the woman is too utilitarian, But the reality is proved that the second marriage in a way a symbol of a woman's life, often determines the happiness of a woman's life. Therefore, many mothers, they marry well, be sure to supervise their daughters also to marry well. She marriage was not good, more tension daughter's choice, own lost things together compensation to come back. For the marriage of discreet, this is one generation to generation to the copy.

Man to a woman's greatest love is to give her attribution,give her marriage. Often this will happen around us: A man over many years in a stable relationship, it looks like he is really love this girl. However, one day, he threw a sentence" I don't think I fit to get married" decamp. But then, he may soon start a new romance. Therefore, for women, the most precious in the world are not" I love you", but " together". The" together" not living together , but a marriage.

Each woman has its own" Marriage Preference", some people think that to marry a rich man marriage happiness, some people think that to marry a considerate man happiness, some people think that to marry a handsome young man is happiness...... When a woman in consideration of the marriage, must consider myself to marry a what kind of man. As the saying goes, "Gold can't be pure and man can't be perfect”.you can't marry into the perfect man. But must have a suitable for your own men, you think that which aspect is important you give priority to. You need a rich man, you would not be afraid of loneliness, you are afraid of loneliness, do not envy others rich material life. So before you into the marriage, the most important and must first consider the question is, would like to know you will marry a what kind of person? What kind of man is suitable for you?

Love is the basis of marriage, marriage is a commitment between husband and wife should be a responsibility, mutual care, mutual trust, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, to be like a light on each other, like a fire to warm the other half. Marriage has become a lover in dream. Love, is beautiful, however the beautiful need marriage to continue. No matter what kind of woman, what kind of situation, or whether the women's independence or traditional, her life without marriage this one. There is no marriage, women, after all, is not a complete woman, after all, is not a complete life.

The vast sea of humanity, my second life where is it? I'm trying to find the answer......


有人说女人有三条命,一条是父母给的,一条是丈夫给的,一条是孩子给的。婚姻,对女性一生的影响不言而喻。婚姻给女人的是一种生活状态,一种生活质量,一种生活感受,一种生活方式。什么样的心态决定什么样的生活态度,什么样的方式决定什么样的婚姻含金量。

婚姻使女性开始新的人生,它是女人的第二次生命。女人生命中最总要的莫过于婚姻了,甜蜜与忧伤,忍耐与欣慰,获得与失去,往往在婚姻中血肉相连,互生互长,无法割裂。人们常说:“女人生得好,不如嫁得好”。嫁得好后半世也就过得好,否则凄风苦雨的日子将永无止境。这时候,男人可能会出来指责女人太功利,但现实就是这样证明,婚姻在某种程度上象征女人的第二次生命,往往决定着女人一生的幸福。因此,很多母亲,自己嫁得好的,一定要监督自己的女儿也找个好人家。自己嫁得不好,更是紧张女儿的选择,要把自己失去的也补回来。对于婚姻的慎重,就这样被一辈一辈地复制着。

男人对女人最大的爱就是给她归属,给她婚姻。我们身边经常会发生这样的事情:一个男人长年累月都处于一种稳定的关系中,看起来他也是真心爱这个女生。然而,说不定哪天,他抛下一句“我认为我不适合结婚”便逃之夭夭。但随后,他也许会迅速开始一段新的恋情。因此,对女人来说,世界上最珍贵的话不是“我爱你”,而是“在一起”。这个“在一起”不是同居,而是婚姻。

每个女人都有自己的“婚姻偏好”,有人认为嫁个有钱的男人婚姻就幸福,有人认为嫁个体贴的男人就幸福,有人认为嫁个帅哥就是幸福。。。。。。女人在考虑婚姻大事时,一定要考虑嫁一个什么样的男人。尽管“金无足赤,人无完人”,你不可能嫁到十全十美的男人。但一定要嫁个合适你自己的男人,你认为哪方面重要你就优先考虑。你需要一个有钱人,你就不要怕寂寞,你怕寂寞,就不要羡慕别人富裕的物质生活。所以走进婚姻之前,你最重要也是首先必须考虑的问题就是,想清楚你要嫁个什么样的人?什么样的男人才适合你自己?

爱情是婚姻的基础,婚姻是一份承诺一份责任,夫妻之间应该互相关爱,互相信任,互相了解,互相包容,要像光一样地照耀对方,像火一般地温暖另一半。婚姻无疑成为有情人最终的梦想。爱情,是美丽,然而这份美丽需要婚姻来延续。无论是什么样的女人,什么样的情况,也无论这个女人是独立还是传统,她的生活都少不了婚姻这一项。没有婚姻的女人,终究算不得完整的女人,终究算不得完整的人生。

茫茫人海,我的第二次生命在哪?我正在努力寻找答案。。。。。。

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#2012-07-22 14:41:19 by destiny1 @destiny1

I whose destiny? Who is my fate? I am here waiting for the answer of my life.

#2012-07-24 10:00:49 by carriexiao @carriexiao

how do i know what kind of man is suitable to me ?please tell me

#2012-10-08 12:20:19 by warriorsage @warriorsage

Your second life will appear when you have the abilities and skills to give fulfillment to men's basic needs for
Physical
Emotional
Intellectual
Spiritual
needs, supports and fulfillments
there are more types of fulfillments, but that's the basic requirements

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