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我出世在一个美丽的国家,经历了动荡的时代和历史的变迁,终于回到了祖国。当岁月积淀女人的智慧与理性,我终于剥下华丽与虚荣,学会积累生活和人生的体悟,我在这里与大家分享生活的心灵感悟,感悟人生的真谛。I was born in a beautiful country, Vietnam, and lived through the turbulent era and the history of changes, then finally returned to the Mother China. With years of accumulated wisdom and feminine rationality,I finally peeled off the gorgeous and vanity. I am here to share with you inspiration, love, hope and thankfulness and their role in understanding the depth and true meaning of life.
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Love with or without losing and winning? 爱情有输赢?    

By Xin73
6801 Views | 22 Comments | 5/16/2013 5:43:55 PM
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#2013-05-19 00:24:17 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Apinkapple
Thank you for your greetings and liked my blog. I have been always busy.What about you?you guessed it some that I am a temperament middleman.

Yes!There is no what feelings more indifferent than feelings on the Internet,more fragile,more difficult to grasp.On the Internet this virtual stage, we should put it down and go ahead.I can realize the online dating, you should understand how much my heart calm.The reality many things are difficult to grasp, not to mention the internet.But there are always some worthy of our cherished friends and memories,Internet also not all hypocrisy,there are a lot of good things worth us to promote and encourage.As long as each one of us can treat each other sincerely, perhaps nothing more wonderful than the Internet stage of life.

Some love is short, but everyone does not want to give up.I will not to bewail the transience of love, for love, as long as I'm full of sincerity, even a brief, it also is my life's most extreme flourishing!
I wish you happiness!

#2013-05-19 12:42:45 by anonymous6215 @anonymous6215

我不同意你的论调,我认为爱情确实存在输和赢,你自己就是一个活生生的例子,输的很惨,虽然你不认为那是输,但那绝也不是赢。

#2013-05-19 13:04:44 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@xin73
嗨,xin.

我对你的印象是既有女性的敏感又有男性的大气,很有气场和能量,很洒脱。
其实读文章,看的是别人的故事,想的却是自己的心事。

连续看了你的三篇博客,其实一直在想自己的经历。在您的博客跟帖其实是对自己经历和感受的一种梳理,也是看了一些在此网站的中国女性朋友经历后的一些思考。

幸福的故事都是美好的,伤心的经历各有各的心痛。
感谢分享自己的故事和心路历程的朋友,对我们每个想在此寻找缘份的朋友都是很好的学习和借鉴。

CLM为大家创造了一个能够结交优秀朋友的平台,同时也为大家打开了提升英语能力以及了解西方男士和文化的一扇窗。

祝你开心,xin , 期待读到你更好的文章。
多保重。

#2013-05-19 21:59:59 by destiny1 @destiny1

hi xin,我觉得爱情是同输或是共赢。
要知道他拒绝了你,不是因为他太优秀,而是因为他不够优秀——不属于自己的永远不是最好的!
爱,是电光石火的契合,每个人对爱都有自己的注解。第一个男人教会了你风月情愁,最后一个男人却给了你天长地久。女人,最值得珍惜的是最后一个男人。相信爱情吧,爱情让我们从容。永远相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。

#2013-05-19 22:36:01 by destiny1 @destiny1

写了半天没发成好像,再写一遍。
hi xin,我认为爱情是同输或是共赢。 婚姻是一个烧杯,进入的两个人其实是两个活性元素,你是什么元素,你需要和什么元素在一起才会有良性的化合反应?这种电光石火的契合非常重要。
爱,每个人都有自己的注解。他离开了你,不是因为他太优秀,而是因为他不够优秀——不属于自己的永远不是最好的!
永远都要相信爱情,爱情让我们从容,相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。等待,安详的端坐在岁月的长廊,用寂寞花开的喜悦,丰润着长夜的清寂。第一个男人教会了风月情愁,最后一个男人却给了天长地久。女人,最值得珍惜的是最后一个男人。希望我们的真诚能收获一分天长地久的永恒!

#2013-05-20 00:16:47 by TimG @TimG

@Apinkapple
In the West, most people take time to get to know each other before committing. During this time, they test the relationship. They speak words of affection to see how it feels. The hope is that the feelings will get deeper. Then words of commitment are spoken.

However, the feelings can also fade. When this happens the people back away. When this happens, usually one is ready to part before the other and there is pain.

I think that this is a cultural confusion. As a Westerner, men sometimes despair that they can't approach a Chinese woman without her thinking marriage is the next step.

I don't think anyone wise would speak of true love after only experiencing someone over the internet.Some people are lucky and find the person they love nearly immediately. However, I would say this is the exception, not the rule.

However, most Western men don't speak words of affection as a means to selfishly hurt Chinese women. It is an indication of interest and a desire to get to know someone better in the hope of love. It is our cultural means of finding the right person.

Tim

#2013-05-20 14:03:04 by xin73 @xin73

Hi destiny1

I am a believe that the fate of person,when fate comes I will calm accept, fate to go also never insist on keep back,I from the natural state of mind to find a rare take it lightly and tranquil,because I know in life, everything is fate. Don't be too demanding.

In fact, there are a lot of can't explain things in life, because of this, filled with infinite a profound theory,such as love and it will give a person infinite reverie.I believe that fate favor any one withstand the test of the person, the truth of the human will release splendor when you are out on a limb.

My best wishes to you!

#2013-05-20 21:26:01 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Apinkapple
First of all I want to say, I really enjoy your reply to TimG's content.I think you can put these questions to write a thread, let more western men to read and comment.Maybe it can help more online dating Chinese women.And thank you for sharing a nostalgic of songs.
Did you read my words feel I am a sentimental person, what you feels is right.Although I was inborn with this sad feeling, but my life has not be them of occupy.I know how to arrange my own life.After all, writing and life are two different state of affairs.I'll sensible to separate my own and text.The text, just to vent my emotions,my sentimental only appear in the text.Use my hands to write my heart,if the keyboard under the knock out don't my own nature of mind,in that way, I could as well stop.
So, some people want catch at shadow to me of in my words,again and again to talk nonsense. But I don't want to same level as with this person, as long as her happy let her to nonsense.
You gave me the impression is also very good, sunny mood, kindhearted, upright character.The beautiful future is in your turn round and distance. Bless you sweet girl!

#2013-05-26 15:58:22 by anonymous6353 @anonymous6353

这何事都有输和赢,这是一条颠扑不破的真理!

#2013-06-02 22:45:59 by sillysandy @sillysandy

输又怎样?赢又怎样?理性的人才能控制感情。感性的人即使明白输赢的道理,还是躲不过。

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