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I Own A Family 我有一个家    

By Meg
9538 Views | 21 Comments | 12/26/2012 1:33:13 PM

I Own A Family.

With all family, relatives and friends’ best wishes, my love and I stepped into the marriage hall happily .

On our wedding,my son said to me quietly, “ Mama, you look like a madam today.” I smiled and said, “ I am Mrs ... now.” He smiled, “ A noble madam.”

In his letter to the immigrate officers, my son wrote, “ ....the first impression he gave me is he is very kind..... Until now, I feel that we have a complete family. I like him. I am very happy. ....”

Yesterday, while he was reading an English paper, he asked me a question, “ Do you think which part of our body is the most important?” It’s an interesting question.I guessed, “Eyes? Heart? .....” “No. No. No. it’s our strong shoulders.”he read to me loudly in English. “ Because when your family or your good friends feel sad or tired, they need help, the best way is to let them rest on your strong shoulders...” I am pleased to see my baby is trying to learn and he is growing up.

Time flies!

I ever wondered who I was.Many years ago, my cousin, a college headmaster said to me, “You sound like a school girl, never living in real society.” On a nice morning, I told my love,“I met Michelle Obama last night in my school yard, while I was walking along the school corridor. I told her the corridor is too dark, it needs some more lights, for safety. She agreed with me and I was very happy .” My love smiled at me.Yes, it’s a nice dream only. Because the villa we stayed was next to the president villa and it made me have the good dream. But the dream has showed who I am or what I am, I think. Though I have paid so much fee for it,there are still so many things waiting for me in the world to learn it ,to face it. So I am happy to be a school girl. Forever!

I ever wondered how we could go on at the beginning. But since we met in person, he said he knew what should we do. The immigrate officer was surprised and smiled when he heard of our meetings. My friends also asked me, “ Your love often comes here, how far does he live?” “Thousands of miles away.” I smiled.

I was worried and even lost sleep. when I was trying to get ready for the immigrate documents. I haven’t gone back to my hometown for long, I was really hate to face the government officers. Fortunitory, with a procuratorate friend’s help, I got my birth certificate notary in 3hours. (I don’t have birth certificate, so I had to go to the City Personnel Division to get my cadre file’s copy,then went to notary office to get birth certificate of notarization. Without friends’ help, I would go to police office directly, then I can’t imagine how many troubles I would face.)

I was panic,in the civil affairs bureau.when the officer leader told me we needed to get more documents for our marriage again and again. It’s not easy to tell my love about it, because we two have done so much consultation before we got there. Especially when we had to go to the Embassy, though it’s not too far from my home, it still took us time and made us feel much pressure. But during the days and nights, my love showed much patient and comforted me. Everything is not easy, but it worths!

“ How much do you miss me?” My love asked me.I really can not find any words to instead of my feelings. Now here, I can say openly, “the more I know you my darling husband, the stronger the happy feeling I have got in my heart.”

I have owned a family. It has rich meaning. It's complete and warm,with love,care and respect. I am proud of it.

Thanks for CLM! Especially, thank you,John! It’s you to make us walk through the longest days and nights safely together and get to the sunshine world filled with love. Thank you!




在给移民官的信中,儿子写到,“ ...... 他给我第一印象很和蔼可亲...... 直到现在,我感觉我们有了一个完整的家。我喜欢他,我很开心 ......”

昨天,当他在看一篇英文文章时,他问我,““ Do you think which part of our body is the most important?” ”很有趣的一个问题。我猜,“Eyes? Heart? ....” “No. No. No. it’s our strong shoulder.” 然后,他给我读,“ Because when your family or your good friends feel sad or tired, they need help, the best way is to let them rest on your strong shoulders...”他在学习成长,我感觉欣慰。


我曾经怀疑我是谁。多年前,我的表哥,一位大学校长对我说,“你就像没出校门的大学生,一点社会经验都没有。”在一个明媚的早上,我告诉我的爱人,“昨晚,当我走在校园长廊时,我碰到米歇尔.奥巴马,我告诉她长廊太暗,为了安全,需要多装一些灯。她同意了,我很开心。” 我的爱人看着我笑。 是的,那只是一个梦而已。因为我们住的别墅就在总统别墅隔壁,所以让我有了一个好梦。但是,我想这个梦恰好显示了我是谁,或者说,我是做什么的。为了生活,我付出了很多学费,但是,仍然有很多的事情等着我去学习,去面对。所以,我很乐意做一名学生,永远!

开始时,我曾经犹疑我们如何持续呢?自从我们相见,他说他就知道我们该如何进展。当移民官听到我们的多次相见时,他很惊讶并微笑着。我的朋友们也问我,“你的爱人经常回来,他住得远吗?” “成千上万里以外”,我笑着应。





感谢CLM, 特别感谢JOHN! 是你让我们一起走过了最漫长的日和夜,走到了充满爱的阳光世界。谢谢!

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#2012-12-26 14:02:48 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

Dear Meg and AussieRoss

What a wonderful Christmas present you have given to all of us at CLM/ALM, members, staff and owners. I'm sure I can speak for everyone when I say we are all so happy for you both. For myself, this is probably my favourite success story ever.

Meg, since joining us as both a member and a blogger you have set a glowing example of what wonderful, kind, generous and caring people Chinese Women can be. Your fellow lady members should be both thankful and proud.

You have earned your current happiness and a lifetime more of it. May the two of you be forever happy.

Congratulations from Everyone here at CLM/ALM.

#2012-12-26 18:50:15 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

Congratulations,Meg.I have read some of your postings on this website.Eevry one has rights to persue their happiness and it takes great effort to make it.Expect to read more your articles and thanks for your sharing.Best wishes.

#2012-12-26 19:26:47 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Meg!看到你在此已花开并蒂真的替你感到万分高兴和感动。此刻我有千言万语只化为一句给你最深的祝福---百年好合,永结同心!!!

#2012-12-26 20:28:41 by Grace172 @Grace172

Wow, You look very elegant and beautiful in wedding dress. I am very happy for you. Congratulations! Best wish to you and your family.

#2012-12-26 20:40:04 by llyz @llyz

Happiness is contagious. It never decreases by being shared, it's like passing on light. If more people are happy and work on their won happiness, they are contributing indirectly to other people's happiness. So, hope to hear more stories like this.

Hahaha, who will be the next? Looking forward to hear ;-)

#2012-12-27 09:42:14 by phonix001 @phonix001

So perfect!Congratulation!
Thank you for your sharing happy story,wish you all the best in the future!

#2012-12-27 15:22:22 by destiny1 @destiny1


#2012-12-27 17:21:30 by sunny00 @sunny00

How beautiful you are , Meg! Congratulations !

You set a good example for us. Thank you.

Hope you come here and share more after you get married.

#2012-12-27 22:20:47 by meg @meg

Thank you very much!

Your best wishes warm our hearts. We hope every good person will have good luck.

We also hope our experience about getting married in China and preparing for immigrate could give any friend on CLM a little help. So if you have any question,I would like to try to answer here.

Happy New Year To You All!

#2012-12-28 20:04:29 by kasey @kasey


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