在中国，因为竞争日益激烈，男人为了他们眼中的成功需要付出更多的努力和时间，而女人为了缓解家庭的经济压力，也努力使自己变得更具竞争力，她们也要为此付出更多的精力和时间。许多人都追赶着别人的步伐生活着，为了购买更大的房子、更好的车子，把孩子送到最好的学校，为了明天更幸福的生活而透支现在，透支自己的健康和精力，包括透支整个社会的生活环境。最后男人和女人都会抱怨，为了家庭如此辛劳的付出，却再得不到对方的温柔对待。

In China, because of the increasingly competitive, a man in order to the success of their eyes need more effort and time, women in order to ease the family economic pressure, also try to make them more competitive, they also must pay more time and energy. Many people chasing other people the pace of life, in order to buy a bigger house, better cars, sending their children to the best schools, in order to a more happy life for tomorrow and overdraft now, overdraft of the health and energy, including overdraw the living environment of the whole society. Finally, men and women all complain, they hard-working for family, but no each other with kindness.

也许女人更想要的，不过是一个温馨的家，也许孩子并不想上名校，也许他们更想得到父母的关爱、发自内心的欢笑和更多的自由自在。

Maybe Chinese woman just want a warm home, maybe children do not want to famous school, perhaps they want more parents' love, heartfelt laughter, and free as a bird.

我在某个网站看到这么一个广告语：要有最朴素的生活和最遥远的梦，以自己喜欢的方式过一生。这句话一下子打动了我，我想要的就是这样。

I saw such a slogan in a web site: to have the most simplicity life and the most distant dream, through the life in exactly the way you want it. This sentence moved me all of a sudden, I want that's it.

当我第一次听到这首歌的时候，有点忍不住热泪盈框，我十多年前放弃公职离开小镇，来到这个城市，也曾踌躇满志，以为美好的生活就在前头。但有时候现实离梦想真的相去甚远，在经历了许多的困难和挫折后，我却不曾后悔。再次回到曾经的地方已经无所适从，每次探亲回到这个城市，走向自己家门都感叹：真好，终于到家了。曾经的家也只是亲人的家，这里，才是我的家。

When I first heard this song, My eyes run over with tears., I left the town more than a decade ago to give up public office, came to this city, also have ambitions, thought that the good life is before me. But sometimes the reality is a far cry from the dream, after many difficulties and setbacks, I never regret. To the place once again has been confused about what to do, every time to visit back to the city, to my own home all exclamation: true good, finally came home. Once the home is family home, here is my home.

今天是父亲节，在此缅怀一下旧日时光，不由有点易感伤情。我固执又倔强的父亲已经病逝将近十年，他是一名小学教师，上课时总喜欢带上一些自己画的花鸟虫鱼的插图，以便课堂讲解更为生动活泼。记得他最后一次送我出远门的时候，坚持要送我到车站，并且固执的帮我提着大背包，他那时候一定已经渐感吃力了，只是并不表现出来。过后才去医院检查，他已经是癌症晚期。与病魔斗争了将近两年，还是离开了我们。

Today is father's day, remembering the old times here, a bit of a susceptible to injury. My stubborn and stubborn father has gone to heaven for nearly ten years, he is a primary school teacher, always like to bring some of his paintings in class illustrations of flower-and-bird insect fish, in order to lectures more lively. Remember the last time he send me out of town, insisted that take me to the station, and stubborn to help me carrying a big backpack, he must have an exhausting at that time, just don't show it. Then go to a hospital checking, He has cancer. He battle with illness will be nearly two years, still left us.

这首歌很动听，我很喜欢这首歌的歌词。This song is very beautiful, I like The lyrics of this song.

Home Is Where The Heart Is  心安之处是为家

歌名：Home Is Where The Heart Is 家，心之所在

创作：Dave Haywood, Charles Kelley, Hillary Scott, Victoria Shaw

演唱：Lady Antebellum 战前女神；怀旧女郎

专辑：《Lady Antebellum》 《战前女神》；《怀旧女郎》

南极冰钓翻译。

　　I felt I was spinning my wheels

　　我感觉曾一度陷入泥潭

　　Before too long the road was calling

　　不久远方道路把我召唤

　　I packed everything I own

　　我收拾起所有的行囊

　　So sure that I was leaving this small town life behind for good

　　信心满满只要我离开这个小镇美好生活就在前头

　　And not a single tear was falling

　　硬是一滴眼泪没落下来

　　It took leaving for me to understand

　　直到要走的那一刻我才真正体会

　　Sometimes your dreams just aren′t what life has planned

　　有时候现实离梦想相去远

　　Mama said home is where the heart is

　　妈妈送我一句话，心安之处是为家

　　When I left that town

　　离开了那个小镇

　　I made it all the way to West Virginia

　　我一路远行去到了西弗吉尼亚

　　And that′s my heart found

　　那是我的心找的地方

　　Exactly where I′m forced to be

　　确切地说是迫于无奈

　　It didn′t take much time

　　真是得来全不费工夫

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　I worked third shift at an all night diner

　　我在一家通宵营业的餐饮店里倒三班

　　Only stayed to save a little money for

　　本想小住攒点盘缠

　　Enough gas to make it to the east coast

　　为有足够的汽油去到东海岸

　　That′s when I saw the brightest pair of

　　也就是这时候我看见那双最明亮

　　Deep blue eyes walking straight into my life

　　湛蓝蓝的眼睛闯进了我的生活

　　And every night we talked till it became so clear

　　我们每晚交谈直说得心里豁然亮堂

　　And I could feel those dreams inside shifting gears

　　我能感觉到内心深处变速换档动力超强

　　Cause love brought me here

　　因为是爱把我带到这里来

　　Mama said home is where the heart is

　　妈妈曾说心安之处是为家

　　When I left that town

　　离开了那个小镇

　　I made it all the way to West Virginia

　　我一路远行去到了西弗吉尼亚

　　And that′s my heart found

　　那是我的心找的地方

　　Exactly where I′m forced to be

　　确切地说是迫于无奈

　　It didn′t take much time

　　真是得来全不费工夫

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　And I′m standing in my veil about to say I do

　　当我站在新娘面纱前正要说我愿意

　　As mama smiles with tear drops in her eyes

　　这时妈妈微笑着泪从眼里滚落

　　And then I realize there′s something mama always knew

　　猛然间我意识到有件事一直以来妈妈知道

　　Love is what I really left to find

　　我离开小镇其实是为寻找爱

　　She said home is where the heart is

　　她先前说过心安之处是为家

　　When I left that town

　　离开了那个小镇

　　I made it all the way to West Virginia

　　我一路远行去到了西弗吉尼亚

　　And that′s my heart found

　　那是我的心找的地方

　　Exactly where I′m forced to be

　　确切地说是迫于无奈

　　It didn′t take much time

　　真是得来全不费工夫

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　Mama said home is where the heart is

　　妈妈曾说心安之处是为家

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

　　恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南

　　Mama said home is where the heart is

　　妈妈曾说心安之处是为家

　　Just south of the Mason Dixon line

      恰好就在梅逊-迪克逊分界线之南