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Decisions, Decisions…In Love    

By Bren
2497 Views | 0 Comments | 8/12/2010 9:50:08 PM

Aaah, decisions-decisions. To love, to live, to laugh? The world is full of decisions and we have no shortage of decisions to decide here on (CLM)!

We decide to join:
If you are READING THIS, you may have already joined us here on CLM. Good for you! You have chosen wisely. If you have not and you somehow find this blog - TIME TO JOIN! Make that decision and try it! You may like it! Nothing wrong with making the first good decision into the world of online dating if you are sincere about it.

Decide to choose:
Now you are left with the decisions to choose. All the beautiful women. All the handsome men (ok, maybe not so handsome! Haaaha!). So many to choose from. How do you begin? Well you obviously got to decide! You know what to do. Get writing. Send a message and personalize it with your own words that will make you stand out from the rest of the competition, but don't just decide on one. Go all out and send messages to many!! Hey, you aren't the only one making decisions here, so you might as well better your odds!! Decide on this one and that one and the other one too. Send, send send messages. Get to know them with many messages. You need those messages for proof of your relationship if you apply for a U.S. visa later. So decide to send many messages!

Fight to decide on one:
Aaah, the decisions on who to pick! All of those messages and kisses back and forth in your inbox. It is time to decide who to decide upon? L( This love decision is an important one and you will not know who is the best decision without communicating. But if you decided correctly, you muat have took your time. There is no need for rush into love. Decide to keep it slow or it could be the worst decision you ever made. Decide wisely by not rushing and you will feel better.

Decide to settle:
Congratulations! You decided upon one. After truly being honest with yourself, you have decided this is the one that I want to invest my time with. A decision that will forever change your life and for the good, right? Such a big and wonderful decision and if the one you chose decided to accept your invite into a wonderful life together than welcome to a million and one more decisions in life for your future! You both have made a wonderful decision to take a leap of faith and love. Good for you. It feels good, huh?

Decide to live and marry:
It's been deep and you have both shared much and decided much on life and you will decide to live and marry together til death do you part. What a hefty decision! But it's for the best, right? This is what it is all about. Finding and deciding on a good love for the rest of your life. Ready for the decisions on where you live? How your wedding will be? I'm happy for you! Wonderful decisions. Life is grand...

Life decisions:
Kitchen needs an update. She decides to just live with the old kitchen and save money. I want to make the decision to just get it updated and out of the way. What color to decide on painting this room and that room. What to decide for dinner tonight? What movie to watch? What to do this weekend? Where to take a vacation? Decisions, decisions, decisions! Love life is so full of decisions and sometimes you just wonder..when will the decisions be over?

I am standing strong on my decision and I'm sure you will agree with me...Never. They will never end.

But you made the best decision of all...
You decided to accept LOVE. Good decision.

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