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Dating Chinese Women: Vestis Virum Reddit, Part 2    

By RWByrum
2148 Views | 34 Comments | 5/30/2018 12:23:14 PM
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#2018-05-31 19:16:01 by paulfox1 @paulfox1


Anyone can strive for perfection, it's just that some of you will never achieve it, lol.

#2018-05-31 19:35:27 by melcyan @melcyan


Paul, you are being very unfair to me. The only image you have of me is my CLM silhouette. I was very excited to pose for my CLM silhouette. Unfortunately, the bottom half of my silhouette had to be deleted because it was considered “too manly” for CLM. They also did not use my best side. If you take the time to look at a mirror-image of my silhouette I am sure that you will be much more impressed.

#2018-05-31 20:00:02 by melcyan @melcyan

I am pleased that my prediction "I don't think Roger will change his photos based on John's comment." turned out to be incorrect. 

#2018-05-31 22:13:34 by roughdiamond @roughdiamond

roger im with you

all my pics were a la me similar to yours

like you i wanted to find my match, one who saw me for who i am, and @barry1 i have.

stay true to yourself but 1 pic in a nice shirt can't hurt...

cheers bud

#2018-06-01 07:51:47 by RWByrum @RWByrum


Who among us mere mortals can compare to an Adonis such as Paul? (giggle)

#2018-06-01 16:20:50 by anonymous17305 @anonymous17305


lol, paul, you are funny! lol 

I think if Chinese women's English could be good enough, and then more of them will understand what a fun loving person you are.:)

You are very straight and too honest while talking about your reflection and criticism about the negative experience in China.Some of your reckless writings and bold comments might have scared many Chinese women away. You sound like a bad guy in some Chinese women' eyes, but you aren't. You just too bold and too honest, like a child.:) And you have a sense of cheeky humor as Chinese saying, which makes you distinctive here. (rofl)(y)


#2018-06-01 16:54:54 by autumn2066 @autumn2066


You said "That was why 34 CLM members contacted me, thus breaking from the prevailing norms of their own culture.". Congraduation!(y)(clap)

We don't doubt that you could find your match in net sooner or later, but what if you want more than 34 CLM members to contact you, like ....ten times, how about 340 women contact you? Would you like that?

If you think "Emmm.....Sounds not bad. Why not?",then you could follow our suggestion, especially @JohnAbbot's.:)

Again, please see that all of us taking our time writing our comments here are just trying to help you finding your best match, not judge nor offend you.:)

Best wishes to you.:)

#2018-06-01 17:10:33 by autumn2066 @autumn2066



I agree both of you.

Quote your words :

"Western men now will find it increasingly difficult to attract a Chinese lady - compared to say, ten or twenty years ago - simply because of the increasingly better standard of living nowadays in China.(handshake)

The burgeoning middle class is accelerating its growth rate. Twenty years ago, a much higher chance existed that Western men would possess considerably more in material terms than the lady.  But now, the gap has diminished significantly."

"We do not feel that there is any less interest by Chinese women in Western men than previously.  There still remain a great number of Chinese women who appreciate the perceived differences in Western men than Chinese men.  Those perceived differences are that Western men are more romantic, more loving, more giving both emotionally and sexually and more likely to be faithful. 

The difference, as you've noted, is that finances have changed. So now, Western men have a greater chance of finding a Chinese woman interested in him, who may actually have greater finances than his own, and rather than hoping to join him in his country, is looking for him to move to China to be with her." 

#2018-06-02 07:00:37 by Barry1 @Barry1



"I agree both of you."

Thanks Autumn2066, you're obviously quite an intelligent lady!  (y)


To digress, in case there are any Chinese ladies reading this who are interested in me, let me confirm that YES, I would be willing to live half a year in China as I no longer particularly need to stay in Australia!   (wasntme)

#2018-06-02 07:35:46 by paulfox1 @paulfox1


Adonis? He was ugly, lol.

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