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Born and raised in Maryland, USA, and attended the University of Maryland, but now living in Pennsylvania, RTByrum is an author and publisher of 9 books but does not make a living at it. His places traveled include Britain and China. His past marriage was to a Chinese woman for 3 years. He since claims to have found the secret to happiness and hopes to share that happiness with someone special, and through his blogs, perhaps also with you.
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Dating Chinese Women: Vestis Virum Reddit, Part 1    

By RWByrum
1685 Views | 14 Comments | 5/19/2018 1:26:53 AM
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#2018-05-22 15:59:33 by Barry1 @Barry1



"According to my partner and friends, I have a great sense of humor. I suspect Ryan also has a good sense of humor. Anyone who can run the painful gauntlet that Ryan ran and reach the end without any bitterness must have a sense of humor."

Who said that Ryan doesn't have any bitterness, Melcyan?  My assessment is he harbours a great deal of hard feelings towards the way he was treated, not to mention the many thousands of dollars that he lost.


And why do you keep referring to Ryan?  Not just in this blog but the other one as well. Can't he speak up for himself?  How or why do you presume to know how he truly feels?  You sound like his official mouthpiece, akin to Sarah Huckabee speaking on behalf of President Trump.  (giggle)



To digress, apart from the above, let me say I valued the rest of your  insightful comments, Melcyan. Though I must say this as politely as I can...  no offense meant... but if you tell me that both you and Ryan have great senses of humour, this leaves me feeling very puzzled, as to why each of you then don't unambiguously demonstrate it on this website? 


Actions speak louder than words, my friend.  :^)


My observations remain however, that overall, you're an extraordinarily sincere, well meaning and intelligent person. Well done. Have a beer on me!  (beer)

#2018-05-23 06:10:01 by RWByrum @RWByrum


Nuff said...?

Yes, I would say so

#2018-05-24 18:43:41 by melcyan @melcyan



" You sound like his official mouthpiece, akin to Sarah Huckabee speaking on behalf of President Trump.  (giggle)"   If that is your idea of funny, it is a pretty low bar.


To avoid contaminating Roger's blog as much as Ryan's was, I have created a forum thread "Dry wit and Barry" for our continued discussion. See you there. I won't make any further comment here.







#2018-05-27 01:50:59 by QinQL @QinQL

@RWByrum 这篇博客看了一部分,也写点我的想法。 一个人是否需要外在美呢?我觉得生活是方方面面的,写作、思考、工作、娱乐、陪伴家人朋友等等,都需要我们付出时间和精力,以使得方方面面能照顾到,让生活变得更美好,是吧? 以前我也不在乎我的穿着,到现在也还是比较随便,但我出门,特别是参加活动,还是会花心思和时间来打扮下自己的,不单单是为了让自己看去漂亮点,更表示我对这项活动的重视和对他人的尊重。

你的上一篇博客我看完了,写得挺好的!佩服一个外国人居然对中国的古代哲学思想理解得那么好(y)好多中国人都不一定理解,包括我在内。 中国道家提倡的无为而治,是给中国古代皇帝管理国家时提供的一个办法。 意思是皇帝不要管老百姓那么多、那么具体和细致,让老百姓自己充分发挥他们在经济工作中的潜能,皇帝只需做好宏观调控就可以了。你说的case很有趣。看了你的想法之后,我也想了好久。其实,我们生活当中存在很多这种无为而治的自然现象:人们每天的睡眠。我们睡觉时,什么都不做,就可以很好地达到身体修复功能;冬天,树枝光秃,动物冬眠,他们在默默为春天积蓄能量。静待花开,不拔苗助长;陪伴和教育孩子时,尊重和顺应孩子内心的想法,不急于求成;夫妻之间,相互尊重、信任、理解和支持,给对方保有各自的一定空间等等。

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