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Imi was born and raised in Europe, Hungary. After finishing his school years, he moved to Canada to search for a better life. He lived in Toronto for 13 years and currently resides in Vancouver. He is a romantic at heart with a strong desire to always do the right thing. He would like to give hope to the Chinese and Asian ladies with his story and send a message that love eventually finds everybody.
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11896 Views | 49 Comments | 3/18/2014 2:47:48 PM
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#2014-04-06 15:13:59 by Jennifercc42 @Jennifercc42

@shirley9183

Hope all is well with you!Good luck!

#2014-04-06 19:07:01 by teresa779 @teresa779

Imi5922 @Imi5922
你好!
非常感谢回应。
你给到一个全方面的,房地产经纪人的信息。但房地产老板营业要求,没有回答。
香港房地产,老板和经纪人是需要考牌,才能工作,但两人考试不一样。

#2014-04-07 01:18:11 by grace2013china @grace2013china

哈,这是哪位姐妹啊,记得这么清楚?!是的,我们发展得比较快,也还算顺利。那之后我圣诞节又过来了。已经登记结婚,前几天递交了绿卡申请。我这人比较宅,所以蛮呆得住的,有时也和先生出去跑跑业务,打算今后就在自家的公司上班了,呵呵!还有就是虽然这里不能和国内的美食比,但附近有个亚洲店,什么都有,我自己煮着吃,所以还算能解馋。如果姐妹们去加州,旧金山,洛杉矶附近,华人特多,什么餐馆都有,感觉像在国内一样哦。谢谢你的祝福,也祝你一切顺利!

#2014-04-08 07:57:44 by Jennifercc42 @Jennifercc42

@grace2013china
Congratulations to you!
Enjoy your new life!(f)

#2014-04-08 11:12:33 by anonymous9611 @anonymous9611

@grace2013china

这么顺利这么快的发展,你应该和大家分享一下你们的发展过程还有你的成功经验,也许可以帮助和启发我们这些还在苦苦寻觅等待的姐妹。希望能在成功故事里看到你们的照片。

祝福!

#2014-04-09 06:04:31 by grace2013china @grace2013china

你好!谈不上什么成功吧。只不过运气好点。我的体会有几下几点。

1,在以前我发的帖子里我也说了,我的等待期限是半年,如果超过了,我就要考虑考虑了。不一定和既有的断,但会多接触其他人。如果你做不到,那就像我以前一样多吃几次亏就懂了,但如果你伤痕累累,站不起来了,这辈子就自毁了。

2,要以对方是否真诚为主,如果要求电话或视频对方不同意,或10天半个月的没消息,那就要考虑他是否另有伴侣。

3,练好英语,多理解西方的文化。我家是教授出身,所以我的标准对方一定要有良好教育。那样凡事谈论起我都有内容和话题,我现在的先生是个技术管理人员,但对政治,历史和地理很感兴趣,对此我都会有自己的见解,所以他挺欣赏我这点的。也自然两个人就容易靠近了。西方人欣赏女性的独立和独特的思想,这点很重要。

4, 独立自主,不卑不亢。最好有自己一定的经济基础,这样说话行动起来就会很有底气。

我今天很高兴移民局已经来信通知我的申请已经收到了,但愿接下来一切顺利!明天起去加州,拉斯维加斯等一个星期,所以赶紧匆忙回复。祝大家好运!

#2014-04-21 00:32:07 by QinQL @QinQL

如果哪天到另一个完全陌生的国度生活,会是怎样?我们似乎能从你的这篇文章中找到答案。反复阅读,有收获,也消除了一些疑虑和担心。了解了有一个不短的时间去适应和学习过程(和你比较可能会更长些吧?因为我现在的年龄比你到加拿大那时老啊(sweat)),期间无论遇到怎样的困惑和迷茫,我们都会想起你的这句话:“I didn't regret it at all to stay in my new country even if staying here was very difficult sometimes at the beginning.”。 thank you lim, thank you very much!!
我早已经阅读了你的最新的blog “我对百合的爱---第7部分”,好几遍了。在这一部分里,你谈到了“性”。我们知道,和有着传统观念的中国女性谈性是不容易的,但是你说得很好,让我们不仅能接受,还觉得有趣,如在写到Lily问你是否是男孩还是女孩时。

我们都期待很快能看到你的下一篇博客。

If one day we will move into another completely strange country life, what would we face to and feel about? We seem find some answers from your article. I have read it several times, it is very useful to us , also eliminates me some doubts and fear. I understand there is a not short time (maybe longer? at least longer than you as I am old now compare you were young when you went to Canada (sweat)) to adapte and learn process, no matter what encounter during the long even hard period, we will remind of your sentence: “I didn't regret it at all to stay in my new country even if staying here was very difficult sometimes at the beginning.”。 Thank you lim, thank you very much!!

I also have already read your last blog “part 7 - my love for Lily”several times too. You talked about sex in this part of your blog. We all know it is not easy to talk about sex to our chinese women who mostly feel themselve are traditional.But It is so acceptable and even you made a little fun about it when we see you said if you were a boy or a man when you chatted with Lily. Well done, lmi .

We all look forward for your next part soon.

#2014-04-22 18:19:19 by hairinbreeze @hairinbreeze

Very good article,I like this words:
"In my opinion, life is not about what you have, it's about how you live and who you spend it with, how much you can gain from it morally and spiritually."(y)

#2014-06-21 21:07:16 by zqy2014 @zqy2014

@Imi5922

Thanks for open sharing, very good article for the new comer to some new country...

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