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我出世在一个美丽的国家,经历了动荡的时代和历史的变迁,终于回到了祖国。当岁月积淀女人的智慧与理性,我终于剥下华丽与虚荣,学会积累生活和人生的体悟,我在这里与大家分享生活的心灵感悟,感悟人生的真谛。I was born in a beautiful country, Vietnam, and lived through the turbulent era and the history of changes, then finally returned to the Mother China. With years of accumulated wisdom and feminine rationality,I finally peeled off the gorgeous and vanity. I am here to share with you inspiration, love, hope and thankfulness and their role in understanding the depth and true meaning of life.
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Comprehend Happiness and Pain True Meaning 领悟幸福与痛苦的真谛    

By Xin73
5192 Views | 11 Comments | 7/8/2012 12:50:20 PM

Life is made up of happiness and pain, the happiness and pain are often together, they will always be in our lives, alternately they appear in our lives; people are willing to enjoy happiness, because those people are happy, happy mood is not always here. However, this is only a beautiful dream, difficult to achieve. Although we are willing to retain happiness, but this is only for a short period of time, no matter how hard we try, there are always going to be a painful time. We should be crying in pain? I don’t think so; the experience of pain is not necessarily when people feel fear. Pain and happiness are always compared; pain can make people know how good days are important.

Pain can make people grow faster, can make people more mature. Therefore; in our present life, We have pain feelings and also happiness, in the happy times we must think about the pain as well, So this kind of life will be able to get more peace of mind, Also can have more be fearless times; this is the true meaning of happiness and pain.

The happiness and pain are so simple,As long as people see clearly life and the essence of life----- the substances just is only hypocritical,substances is not eternal,we would not live so tired. When we are in this bustling noisy city walk, Always show on the face a sad look, we in this feeling, why not tired? Why are you not satisfied? Why do you always have so many things to bother of your own? In fact, don't worry, we should live life happily, so that we can enjoy the happiness, some are in the pursuit of material enjoyment, to put aside! To gain and loss, maintains an ordinary heart, Can get rid of proud, arrogant and frustrations, when the malice have a normal heart, happiness will be able to be achieved in harmony and tranquility of mind.

God has given us life; this life has its existence value and meaning, even with the addition of many unbearable suffering. Even in the sad and low life, lift up our heads, out of the trough of life. A hero always comes out from the face of adversity. This makes sense. Life is too comfortable, will only make us forget the hard work of what it tastes. But, life… is to try all the sour, sweet, bitter and hot; this should be a complete life!

Friends often think about our lives, happiness and time to hold on to it, if is not, then do not have to force it is the so-called wateriness is true, When we know how to resolve the difficult times, we had been in the enjoyment of happiness……


领悟幸福与痛苦的真谛

人生就是由幸福与痛苦组成的,而幸福与痛苦都不常在,它们总是会在我们的生活中轮番上演,交替着在我们的生命中出现,人们都愿意享有幸福,因为那些毕竟是让人快乐的,高兴的心情谁不想永远拥有?但是,这只能是一个美好的幻想,难以实现。虽然我们愿意坚持去留住幸福,但这也只是短暂的,你再怎么努力,也总有经历痛苦的时候。我们是不是就应该在痛苦中哭泣?我想不是,痛苦的经历不一定就是让人望而生畏的,比起幸福来,痛苦更能让人懂得好日子的重要,也能让人成长得更快,让人更加的成熟。所以在我们目前的生活中,我们若在痛苦中感受幸福,在幸福中想想痛苦,这样便能过得更加心安理得,也能过得更无所畏惧。这就是幸福和痛苦的真谛所在。

幸福和快乐的获得就是那么简单,人只要看透了生活和生命的本质------物质只不过是浮云,就不会活得那么累。当我们在这个繁华喧闹的都市中行走的时候,总是在脸上表现出愁苦的神情时,你这是在为什么忧愁?你有什么不满足的?为什么你总是用这么多烦恼的事情来困扰自己?其实,不用担心,人生就要快乐活着,这样才能享有幸福,把一些正在追求的物质享受放到一边吧!对待得失成败,保持一颗平常心,才能摆脱得意时的狂妄自大和失意时的萎靡不振。拥有一个平常心,快乐就能在祥和和宁静的心境里筑巢栖息。

上天赋予我们生命,这生命有其存在的价值与意义,即使其中附加了许多难以承受的苦难。即使在人生的低谷,也要挺起胸膛,走出生命的低谷。任何英雄都是说从逆境中走出来的,这并非没有道理,生活太安逸了,只会让我们忘了拼搏是什么滋味,可是,人生不是要酸甜苦辣都有所尝试吗?这应该是完整的生活啊!

朋友们,时常想想我们的生活,幸福的时候就努力留住它吧,实在不行,那也不必强求,正所谓平平淡淡才是真,当我们懂得如何去化解困难的时候,我们就已经在享受幸福了。。

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#2012-07-12 20:07:25 by aku1234 @aku1234

This is a very complicated and difficult subject. Unfortunately I am not clever enough to say anything as fancy about it as you. As a simple man my motto is just:

"Don't worry, be happy!"

;o)

#2012-07-15 02:32:16 by anonymous3910 @anonymous3910

Quite a complicated subject..I imagine the traumas you must have been through to pour out this...Life in a whole has two sides..good & bad.They do go together in all situations.So life is short,live it happily while it lasts!

#2012-07-15 20:23:48 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Anonymous Member
Yes, because I have suffered a lot of painful experience,to feel the meaning of what happiness is.Life seen and heard,shock to my feelings.
Thanks for your comment.

#2012-07-15 21:16:30 by stoken @stoken

Thanks for writing this. It's something that's been on my mind a lot recently. Sometimes the source of our unhappiness is knowing that we are causing pain to someone else but there is nothing that can be done about it. It's all part of life and we must navigate our way the best that we can.

#2012-07-15 22:16:09 by Johnny @Johnny

I will keep on reading your articles ! Well done! Good luck

#2012-07-17 11:49:21 by xin73 @xin73

Hi stoken
Thank you for your comments and can understand the meaning of the content of the article.
When I was going through all kinds of hardships, understand what happiness is.
Happiness is not a goal, but rather is a process that is synchronized with the life process.
People are often concerned about what they do not, while ignoring what they have,therefore the mind is always in a state of hunger,there are inexhaustible desire need one one fill, live very tired, and therefore can not feel happiness.
Happiness is everywhere, everyone has his own happiness,to see you how to discover and grasp.
Many people came to realize that after the passage of time,in fact, happiness is very simple.As long as the mind has been satisfied, some comfort that is happiness.

#2012-07-17 11:54:19 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Johnny
Thank you for your support and comments,I will redouble our efforts.Thank you!

#2012-07-17 15:03:04 by Elliecc @Elliecc

Good luck to you!Yes,I always value the people around me and the things happened to me,even they are bad things,I think thet are parts of my life

#2012-07-18 16:16:42 by maymay06 @maymay06

说得真的好,上天赋予我们生命,这生命有其存在的价值与意义,即使其中附加了许多难以承受的苦难。
让我们懂得如何去化解困难的时候。
拥有一个平常心,快乐就能在祥和和宁静的心境里筑巢栖息。

愿祥和的心灵 always !

#2012-07-19 11:50:56 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Elliecc
Thank you for reading and commenting.I also wish you good luck!Wish you can find true love here!

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