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Complain, inferior to diligently enterprising 抱怨,不如努力去进取    

By Xin73
4776 Views | 17 Comments | 10/14/2012 1:21:32 PM

Complain, inferior to diligently enterprising

Like to complain of the people in the world is difficult to have a foothold, vexed sorrow is the mind killer. The lack of a good attitude, Like as physically the curb chain,will oneself tightly bound in the dark. Maybe a life of poverty as like chains bothering you, not have friends and family, helpless living in a foreign country. You are eager to relieve yourself heavy burden, However, life like a dark abyss of burden is so heavy. therewithal you are complaining, exclamation fate to own injustice, Complains of oneself parents, oneself boss, complain about how God so unfair, let you suffer from poverty, but give others rich and coziness .

No one will because bad temper and negative negative mentality, and reap the rewards and ascend. Observe carefully any a sound management institutions, You will find that the most successful people are positive enterprising, ready to help others, can timely encouragement and praise to others people. Top people,often encouraged others like himself happy and enthusiasm. However, some people still can not understand this intention, will grumble and complain for granted.

In life, we have everything requires fair, requirements of development in accordance with their own wishes, If a little error feel god to oneself not fair, complain or grumbles are produced. Complaining is an in the mind unbalance response, is a kind of pursuit of perfect psychological and emotional state of mind of the external performance. Cannot be redeemed things forget it and have a chance to repair, to seize the last chance. Regret, blame, depression, not only to no avail, it will hinder your advancing feet. Will only make oneself the pain in the abyss sink deeper and deeper. As long as you see life in unfair, it 'll never hurt you, contrary it will become a kind of incentive you progress strength. 300 years ago, after Milton's blindness, also found the same truth:“ Application and thought of the idea of itself, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven.”

In life, everyone will face a lot of disappointments. We should understand that the life doesn't complain, with positive attitude to face, people will naturally become happy a person. Just because life if a door is closed, there must be another door open. God closed all the doors, will certainly leave you with an open window. Lost something, will harvest in other places. The key is you must have an optimistic state of mind, believe there are will gains for all our losses. with more wise attitude to face the future life.

Life is like that, sometimes bring us happiness, sometimes bring us vexed,Sometimes fair to us, sometimes make us feel wronged, we have in the fairness and disequilibrium of the entanglement to spend every day. But, suddenly one day life is fair thing, no one can give us unfair treatment, we may really very difficult to adapt to, because there is no unfair cannot realize the fair niceness and rare . perhaps this is pain and happy life's true meaning. When faced with setbacks, we don't complain, because it is the be remembered with deep gratitude pain, let us to recognize my own shortcomings, can motivate us to catch up, make up their own inadequacies, just about it is that time and time again to fall, we learn to stand.

I believe a word: "if you want to complain, the everything in life can become you to complain about object, If you don't complain, the everything in life will not let you complain. Sometimes those frustrated days, we would always feel live really annoying, in the search for the one thousand kinds of reason later, when we look back on past those days, and no and others have what different nature, different only in our minds whether to have a "wateriness and calm ". Therefore, the sad pain when, of hiding in the corner to complain, be inferior to will the pain and suffering as improve self "stepping stone", as progress ladder "handrail", as life is give to own a gift If life give us is again and again frustrated, time and time again the hardships, in fact, this is no big deal, because it was just fate deprived us of living noble right, but does not prevent us from living happiness and freedom.

Stop your complaints, let be irritable mood calm down. In life any kind of living is perfect?
have any kind of life can do as my meaning? There is not! So we have no complain? Seems to also cannot. But at least we can make themselves less complaining, and more positive attitude, because if complain that became a habit, just as lifting a rock only to drop on their own feet, unfavorable to others, no benefit on their own. Life is like into a cage, everywhere is not one's day, everywhere dissatisfied, conversely, will understand, free life, in fact in itself is the greatest happiness, where there are so many complain? We can't do never complain, but we should at least let yourself less complaining, and more positive attitude to work hard.








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#2012-10-11 16:10:39 by sisi0923 @sisi0923


#2012-10-12 14:10:38 by mette @mette


#2012-10-14 13:26:50 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

I think this blog provides some very sound advice that many members of CLM and ALM might need to consider. We've noticed an ever increasing amount of unreasonable complaining and, worse, some pretty nasty criticism of members, forum writers and bloggers by other members who maybe should consider that CLM is a community in which we want everyone to grow and prosper and hopefully find a great partner. Calling each other nasty names and complaining about the opinions or beliefs of other hardly enhances that community spirit we are striving to achieve for the good of all.

Thank you, xin73, for bringing this notion into the light with your blog.

#2012-10-14 14:01:19 by anonymous4490 @anonymous4490


#2012-10-14 15:18:03 by xin73 @xin73

Hi sisi0923

#2012-10-14 17:36:21 by xin73 @xin73

Hi mette

#2012-10-15 19:52:03 by xin73 @xin73

Hello John
I am writing this blog is for here a male member.I am here with his cognize of almost three months.His personal question is very bad,replaced by another female member might say he is a liar.But I do not think he is a liar,As we talk further.I always give him encouragement and consolation.In his current situation may not come to China to meet with me, but I have enough conditions visa to go to America to visit him.In my opinion if the two sides are really in love,It doesn't have to be a man came to meet the woman, as a woman also can go to meet with their to like a male . Of course, it must be in a certain condition under the premise.Here I also met bad male member " so-called cheater ", But I always with my sincere language resolve all the trouble.I think attitude is can decide a person's encounters.Every female member here will have met cheats and some bad experience. But some people always like to hold own experience to forum to conduct propaganda,let some people blindly followed the echoes.I think it is a very boring thing.If here met cheats or badness male member, I think this is normal.Find the other party is bad to stop contact, or towards web site to report it.don't always complain about meet cheater meaningless discussion.Don't say on the net is always met cheats or bad man,in our real life of around there are a lot of cheater,do we want lifetime talk endlessly complain?It 's better to do complain not as good as through efforts than to enhance the hard work,use action to prove himself. People are often in overcoming difficulties in the process to produce courage, and cultivate fortitude and noble character.
I am very pleased to find CLM, thank you so much for creating such a good international dating platform. Let me have a lot of opportunity to recognize foreign friends and learn foreign culture. I hope to read my blog member will know: life is so,nothing is worth we always complain. to live is the greatest happiness,What else is worth us to complain about the niceness life?

#2012-10-16 09:03:06 by jwksdy444 @jwksdy444


#2012-10-16 12:48:19 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Anonymous Member

#2012-10-16 23:28:01 by anonymous4510 @anonymous4510

我喜欢你的文笔也赞赏你的人生态度.假如生活欺骗了你,不用悲伤,因为我们至少读懂了它, 同样我们会在下一个路口去找到前进的方向.

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