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Barry from Australia is a questioning soul who looks at social issues from an alternative point of view and instead of asking, “Why?”, he asks “Why not?” He’s convinced that many of his previous incarnations were spent in China. He feels drawn to the people there; attracted by their rich culture and way of life. If given one wish from God, he’d reply, “I want everyone on Earth to be the same colour, speak the same language, and treat each other as they themselves would like to be treated.”
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Chinese Ladies: The Good, The Bad and the Somewhat Ugly (Part 3)    

By Barry Pittman
859 Views | 15 Comments | 1/5/2019 4:06:56 AM
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#2019-01-10 14:08:14 by Barry1 @Barry1


Thank you to all for your interesting comments. My articles are designed to make people smile a little, or if not, then hopefully make them think a little.

With this article, perhaps I succeeded? If not, there's always next time! 

Best wishes to all.   (handshake)




#2019-01-10 19:14:15 by anonymous18938 @anonymous18938

 @Anonymous18918 “Loneliness is a state of mind.” I agree.


A person’s state of mind is their responsibility and no-one else’s. Beware of any person who comes to CLM seeking another to end their loneliness. A person needs to end their own loneliness BEFORE they start seeking a life partner.

#2019-01-14 09:40:08 by paulfox1 @paulfox1

Don't look for a princess that needs saving.

Instead, seek a queen ready to go to work

#2019-01-30 13:34:37 by RobertB @RobertB

Hello Everyone

I have not been on this site for some time and also I even more so did not enjoy your excellent blog here for a while. Now I returned to have a look.
This article concides with some youtube videos about various Chinese ladies and also one Korean movie "A Hundred Year’s Inheritance".. It is about among others a mother in law(why not ?) who is so terriblly awful to her daughter in law that you would not imagine looking at her business reception speech where she prases everyone but her daughter in law.
The reason why I am putting it here is that I have found out severlal things.
One is the global trend that has managed to reach Eastern countries, the other is the individual situation at the moment and also one widest is the some sort of cycle of evolution or I am not sure how to call it.
The first thing is that due to population explosion around the world in recent century or so, at least this seems to be the main cause, there has been strong drive to limit this growth.
On the surface governements seem to support families and single mothers but in reality they do everything to make sure the developed countries start running out of people sooner rather than later.
So, women and men have been targeted in different ways but the outcome is the same.
Less agreement between the two and hence the drop in population growth.
I know this does not affect the III world so to speak.
The second thing  is that relationships are actually quite dependent on individual circumstances pertaining to every facet of life, consciousess, level of education, wealth and ability to live life in general. Plus luck. Luck defined as anything that helps you but you cannot really pinpoint easily. Or you can but you cannot say it is a rule really but rarhter it happened in your favour.
Finally the third thing, there has been some voices saying that our present civilization is not the first one of its kind. There has been some research done and also some folklore and alike that say that we had countless worlds in the past and most of them were reaching this statge of advancement. Then people were losing their ability to be close to the higher self and then turned against each other.
That is the very shorthand of what I would like to say if I  could say it properly and had true knowledge of the facts and mechanisms.
As it stands I just can only glean some basic facts, bring them together nad try to infer some meaning oot of it.
Time flies and everyone knows how hard it is to do many things.
This brings us to belief that life is not just soemthing that happens but something that is organized to happen.
Our perpetual struggle to understand oursleves and world around us. Our will to shape the world and try to understand it so we can adjust better to it.. or change it if at all possible. Meaning change it without side effects.. Or be able to control the side effects.
One of them is technology. It is said that mostly men introduced technologly to make the world better place. Yet very often it created a world where life is harder, harsher and people or men have less control over it. Or at least they feel that way sometimes.
Women seem to jump on this wagon, claim it as own and be very often even better in some respects at using it than men.
So, some men rebel. Most of it is done on subconcious level. People do not go around talking about it but it happens. That is why many things happen the way they do.
As for I am worried or afraid , I a not sure what word to use about the incertainty of futre.
On one hand I have a feeling that nothing can happen as life has been on and on for ver.
On the other hand I worry that my actions or my faith or beliefs even can be wrong or bring adverse effects.I am tlking about short term beliefs. Like belief in someone's attitude towards me or our future or her saying the truth.

This is just an attempt to contribute to the discussion. I am aware that I may have been wrong somewhere but tried not to.
It is good that people are trying to make out the most and best of this world.
Although the relationships problems in nature are eternal. Still they do not stop people from seeing the outmost beauty or be able to use it for very prosaic needs like survival, continuity of life on Earth among others.



#2019-01-30 13:46:12 by RobertB @RobertB

IWhen you meet somoene for the first time there is a good chance they just try to be polite nad they do not know you yet. 

Later on thohugh some people try to gauge you and figure out how much they cna push you around. If they for some reaosn can then they do. 

If they are mistreated they like behaing like someone very weak and very vulnerable if they cannot see overcoming the enemy. 

Living with such person is pointless. I have tried at least once and this is not going anywhere good, 

One way is to set some checkpioints but it is hard to be very romantic then. 

I mean just do something and then if both of you do not agree be able to withrdraw Anytime. 

It can be hard if children do appear at some point. 

One way to alleviate the problem is not to show yourself from the best side all the time. Not at all cost. I know this is not always the best solution. 

If you love someone then want to sacrifice but not to make someone unhappy. 

So, if she does not want to sacrifice maybe she does not love you. 

Yet then , you cannot be cruel. So it needs lots of very good action ... 

I am going to sleep now.. Maybe I can dream simething out? Not up. just out.. To slove the problem.. Ha... 



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