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Cherish the Memory of Confidant    

By Xin73
8845 Views | 23 Comments | 2/22/2013 3:53:46 PM

The tomb of Yu Boya

The word " confidant " reminds me of the famous Yu Boya in ancient Chinese to break peptachord thank bosom friend immortals allusions.Compared with the people, in today's society, suffering from numbness and drowsy soul tortured by their life,who CARES about enjoying the true, simple and deep friendship. Look at the interpersonal gradually indifferent world, make me for dearly cherish the memory of Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi. For this world there are so great friendship overjoyed and touched the heart and admiration. When the world heartless I was acracholia, when the world was full of affection I rejoice. The joy of heart has always been exist; without any confusion not to the past.

In here I palimnesis two the ancestors, let western friends to know more about "bosom friend" this word was derived from the famous Chinese allusions and to hear this period of a touching friendship.

The story happened in China two thousand years ago in the spring and Autumn period,there was a famous musician, his name is Yu Boya. Yu Boya from childhood very intelligent, highly talented and very fond of music. He was with a call Liancheng the teacher to learn peptachord,Liancheng teachers in order to Yu Boya acquire even higher attainments, to help him find a better teacher for of excuse and to take him to a lonely island then leave.

Yu Boya in the lonely island, he with the sea and the forest bird for the partners, the feelings naturally to changed and edify the soul, he in nature in to grasps the spirit of music, let his own thoughts and feelings to dissolve in music among. Truly comprehend the nature of art and create a masterpiece handed down for generations. Finally him become a generation of outstanding musician, but really can understand his the tune the person are not actually many, he has been struggling to find own soul mate.

One day, Yu BoYa take boat to travel along the river. The boat to mountain side, suddenly began to rain, his had to let the ship berth is in mountain side take shelter from rain.Yu BoYa listen to the patter of rain, see the rain hit the surface of the river's the vivid scene and aroused the interest of his played. Yu BoYa are playing very involved, suddenly felt a strange trembling on the strings, which is the musician the telepathy,this shows that have someone in nearby to listening music.Yu BoYa go out of the ship to see, sure enough it is the edge of the woods sat a woodcutter.

The woodcutter was a Zhong ziqi. Yu Boya put Zhong Ziqi to please into the ship and each other self-introduction the name.Yu Boya said: "I am for you to playing a tune okay?" Zhong Ziqi immediately indicate are all ears.Yu Boya immediately playing a tune " high mountain". Zhong Ziqi highly praise way: "how lofty mountain ah!" Yu Boya continue to playing a tune "running water", Zhong Ziqi praise: "how vast and mighty the riverwater ah!" Yu Boya after heard very admire and excited .Oneself used tweedle express thoughts, the past not ones hear to understand, but at present this woodcutter unexpectedly can hear clearly. Unexpectedly in this desolate mountain can meet oneself the soulmates. therefore, Yu Boya the hands put the harp push aside and to stand up, walking to in his front hold his hands say: "know acquaintances all over the world, but very few confidant, you are really my soulmates ah!" So both of them have sworn for "A friend until death" and an appointment met next year in the Mid-Autumn festival of reunion in here.The same day, both of them tearful farewell.

Winter to spring, a year passed quickly. In Mid-Autumn festival Yu Boya to arrived an appointment of with Zhong Ziqi farewell place. He waiting for long time not see Zhong Ziqi to keep the appointment, Yu Boya decided to go to Zhong Ziqi house looking for him.On the way to met an old woodcutter, at ask the way time the BoYa yu know who is the father of ZhongZiqi.He told the old man his purpose come here.

The old man Old Man Wept Bitterly tell to Yu Boya that the Zhong Ziqi at deathbed to request to father put himself tomb built in the river bank,waiting for in Mid-Autumn festival and Yu Boya meet and can hear his the tweedle,and request his father help replace of him keep one's promise with Yu Boya.

The old man finally said: "when you just now to come the wayside,there is a new grave, that is ... He in ... Waiting for you!" Yu Boya to hearing this, frightened, faint in the ground.

Yu Boya regain consciousness , with old man to came the grave of the Zhong Ziqi, He recollect their first met of the scene can't help extremely grieved and crying aloud. He took out heptachord(Yao Qin) sitting in grave front, and mournful to play they first met the tune "high Mountain and running Water".

When music finished,He put the strings to pick broken and sad to say: I only bosom friend has passed away,this peptachord(Yao Qin) play who to listen to it?” Then will himself precious peptachord smashed in grave front of Zhong Ziqi . Since then, Yu Boya and heptachord(Yao Qin) insulation,never played it.

This is China's famous allusions.Dear friends, when you read this story have why reflections? I was thinking, that the two gender orientation normal men, a musician ,one is the woodcutter.The identity and status of them in that era there should be a gap.But Yu Boya lower the identity give a woodcutter the equality and respect,and to produce the feelings of freemasonry. Admittedly Yu Boya have insight and self-restraint the person; Like Zhong Ziqi at deathbed,haven't forget himself promise, request his father instead of him to go to "keep an appointment" can have several people do it?Their genuine, sincerity, will never change until death of the friendship can you not be touched?! "High Mountain Running Water" the dulcet music is still lingering in people's heart,like the Boya and Ziqi to waken some paralysis of the soul.

Faced with the vastness of the universe, I feel own so small as a drop in the ocean. Looking at the present society has been interest and desire of rendering ,people's just for survival and their respective interests and busy and gradually forget most pure feelings of human nature. Ask how few people will have such a pure feelings?Who will for Whom still abide by an appointment?Who will for Whom will never change until death?Who will have the time to rinse themselves suffer social stress become distorted soul?Today's society to suffer "impetuous" atmosphere shrouded, human relationship the cultured was almost only become dream of the wishful, or just a distant legend in people's mind. When someones dally with the feelings of others, whether can be conscious of themselves superficial of human nature?Hope the profound friendship of Boya and Ziqi can give people some enlightenment and hope that a tune "High Mountain Running Water" can appeased all impetuous soul.

Thousands of people and tens between millions years,met that want to met person,Their inclination and interest and oneself consistent,can how not produce like get treasure feeling?The same attitudes and values, The same attitudes and values, final them become like-minded and even with the total death of best friends. Their bosom friend of friendship really let the common people moved and envy of the pole. I hope all the person of in their lifetime can met oneself to admire wholeheartedly of the confidant !

缅怀“知己


“知己”一词让我想起中国古代著名的俞伯牙摔琴谢知音的千古流芳典故。相比当今社会的人群被现实生活折磨得麻木和昏昏欲睡的灵魂,还有谁在乎享受这份单纯至真的深厚情谊?看着这个人与人之间逐渐冷漠的世间,勾起我对俞伯牙和钟子期的深切怀念。为人世间有如此的友情大喜,感动在心和钦服。当世界无情时我多情,当世界多情时我欢喜。欢喜之心一直在,没有什么迷惑走不过。

在此缅怀这两位先辈,让西方国家的朋友更多地了解“知己”这个词就是来源于中国著名的典故和聆听一段感人友情。

故事发生在两千多年前的在春秋时期,有一位著名的音乐家,他的名字叫俞伯牙。俞伯牙从小非常聪明,天赋极高并很喜欢音乐。他从小跟一位叫连城的名师学琴。连成老师为了俞伯牙的琴艺得到更高的造诣,以帮他寻找更好的老师为由带他去一个孤岛后离开。

俞伯牙身处孤岛,整天与海为伴,与树林飞鸟为伍,感情很自然地发生了变化,陶治了心灵,他在大自然中领会乐曲的精神,让自己的思想感情溶注于乐曲之中。真正体会到了艺术的本质并创作出了传世之作。最后成为了一代杰出的琴师,但真正能听懂他的曲子的人却不多,他一直在苦苦寻觅自己的知音。

有一天,俞伯牙乘船沿江游历。船行到一座高山旁边时,突然下起了大雨,只好让船靠在山边避雨。俞伯牙听着淅沥的雨声,眼看雨打江面的生动景象而琴兴大发。俞伯牙正弹到兴头上,突然感到琴弦上有异样的颤抖,这是琴师的心灵感应,说明附近有人在听琴。俞伯牙走出船外,果然看见岸上树林边坐着一个樵夫。

这个樵夫就是钟子期。俞伯牙把钟子期请到船上并互相通了姓名。俞伯牙说:“我为你弹一首曲子好吗?”钟子期立即表示洗耳恭听。俞伯牙即兴弹了一曲《高山》。钟子期赞叹道:“多么巍峨的高山啊!”俞伯牙又弹了一曲《流水》,钟子期称赞:“多么浩荡的江水啊!”俞伯牙又佩服又激动。自己用琴声表达的心意,过去没人听得懂,而眼前这个樵夫竟然能听得明明白白。没想到在这个荒山野岭之下,竟遇到自己苦苦寻觅不到的知音。俞伯牙于是双手把琴推到一边站起来,走上前紧握钟子期的双手说:“相识满天下,知心能几人,你真是我的知音啊!”于是两人结拜为生死之交并相约明年中秋节在此重逢。次日,两人洒泪而别。

冬去春来,一年过去。俞伯牙在中秋节这天应约来到与钟子期分别的地方,等了很久不见钟子期来赴约,于是决定去钟子期的家找他。在路上遇见一位老樵夫,在问路时俞伯牙知道了此人便是钟子期的父亲。他向老者表明来意。

老者老泪纵横地向俞伯牙叙述了钟子期在临终时的请求。钟子期向父亲请求把自己的坟墓修在江边,等待中秋相会时,可以听到俞伯牙的琴声。并请求父亲代替他在此等待伯牙的相约。

老者最后说:“在你来时的路边,有座新坟,那便是……他在……接你啊!”

俞伯牙闻听此言,大惊,昏倒在地。

俞伯牙苏醒过来后,跟钟父来到钟子期的墓前,他想起去年他们初次相见的情景不禁悲痛欲绝并放声痛哭。他取出瑶琴坐在坟前,凄楚地弹起了他们初次相见的乐曲《高山流水》。

曲终,俞伯牙站立起来长叹一声悲伤地说:我唯一的知己已不在人世了,这琴还弹给谁听呢?”并将自己心爱的瑶琴摔碎于钟子期的墓前。从此与琴绝缘,再也没有弹过琴。

这就是我国流芳百世的典故。亲爱的朋友当你读完这个典故后有何感想?我在想,这两个性别取向正常的男人,一个是琴师,一个是樵夫,两个人的身份和地位在那个时代应该有差距。但俞伯牙放低身份对一个目不识丁的樵夫给予平等和尊重,并产生惺惺相惜之情。诚然俞伯牙是有慧眼和有涵养的人;再想能像钟子期临终不忘自己的诺言,请求自己父亲代替“赴约”的能有几人?他们的真挚、诚信、至死不渝的知己之情你能不感动吗?!(高山流水)的美妙乐曲至今还萦绕在人们的心底耳边,犹如伯牙和子期在唤醒某些麻痹的灵魂。

面对广袤的宇宙,我感觉自己渺小如沧海一粟。看着现今这个已经被利益和欲望渲染的社会,人们只顾着为生存和各自的利益忙碌而日渐淡忘人性中最纯真的感情。试问有几个人还会拥有如此单纯的感情?谁会为谁守一份约定?谁会为谁至死不渝?谁会有时间去漂涤自己被社会重压变得扭曲的灵魂?现今的社会被“浮躁”的气氛笼罩着,人情和谐的修养也几乎只能成为一种一厢情愿的梦想,或者仅仅是人们意识中的一种遥远的传说。当某些人在玩弄别人感情的时候,是否意识到自己人性的肤浅?希望俞伯牙和钟子期的深厚友情能给人们一些启迪。希望一曲《高山流水》可以抚平所有浮躁的心灵。

在千万人之中和千万年之间,遇见了那个想要遇见的人,那个与自己情志相投和兴趣一致的人。那么怎能不产生如获至宝的感觉?相同的态度和相同的价值观,最终使他们成为了志同道合甚至同生共死的至交好友。他们的知己之情实在让世人感动和羡慕之极。但愿天下人在有生之年能遇见让自己倾心的知己!

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#2013-02-22 17:39:45 by anonymous5565 @anonymous5565

不喜欢溜须拍马,不喜欢随波逐流 提出不同的看法的人,就叫没涵养?就是肤浅?我看肤浅的恰恰是你自己。

#2013-02-23 14:18:22 by xin73 @xin73

@anonymous5565
我真的不明白你不是说过不喜欢阅读我的博客吗?你曾经说我写的东西又长又难理解,但是你每一次都忍不住要拜读我写的东西。你是不是对我真的很不服气啊?你很奇怪我怎么知道你是谁吧? “jwksdy444”中国首都的大姐!千万不要以为你匿名到处去污蔑别人,别人就不知道你是谁?看你遇到被你攻击的人是谁!若要人不知除非己莫为!

是的,我给你说对了我很肤浅,正因为我知道自己的肤浅所以不断地去学习和感悟人生。你知道比肤浅更糟糕的词是什么吗?是无知!比无知更惨的是什么?是弱智!我很幸运自己的肤浅!总比无知与弱智者更幸运幸运!

我这篇博客中说的一句“人情和谐的修养也几乎只能成为一种一厢情愿的梦想,”你帮助我印证了这句话!你又一次不打自招!

我奉劝你甚至拜托你读我的博客如果要评论的,请你评论文章的内容,不要牵扯到我个人!如果你的水平有限不明白我所写的内容,你阅读后可以离开不需要要评论。

I really don't understand what you said not to don't like reading my blog? You once said something I wrote a long and difficult to understand, but every time you couldn't help to read what I wrote. Are you for me really defy spirit? You are very astonish how do I know who you are?"Jwksdy444" the capital of China "big sister!"Don't think you anonymous everywhere to slander others, others will not know who are you? That is about to see when you met your attack is who is the person!If you would not be known to do anything, never do it.
Yes, I'll give you said to me is very superficial, because I know my superficial therefore constantly learning and perception of life. Do you know more than superficial bad word is what? Is ignorance! What is even worse than ignorance? Is mentally retarded and idiot ! I was very lucky to own superficial! The total ratio of ignorance and mentally retarded and idiot people are much more lucky!
I this blog said a word "Today" s society to suffer "impetuous" atmosphere shrouded, human relationship the cultured was almost only become dream of the wishful, " you help me to justify this sentence!You confess without torture once again!
I advise you to read my blog if you want to comment, please comment the content of the article,please don't involve me! If your level is limited not understand what I wrote, after reading leave you don't need to comment.

#2013-02-23 20:07:14 by Grace172 @Grace172

Xin, you are so lucky. Seems a 'Chinese ghost' has sticked on you. I think she loves you so much that once your new article has posted on, she will refute you at once without reading the content at all. So that let you become famouse.I wonder if she will refute you if you write a complimentary article to her. haha...
你很很幸运,似乎一个“中国匿名鬼”盯上你啦。我想她很喜欢你,每次你的文章一出,不管内容是什么,她连文章的内容都没看清楚就对你进行攻击。正因为她一直跟着你,所以让你出名拉。你无需生气啊。有一个无知、低劣、愤恨的“鬼”跟着你反而有强烈的对比,更衬托你的智慧和优雅。让你和你的文章更受欢迎。我盼望你写一篇赞美这只见不得光的“鬼”的文章,说她多么善良,多么可爱,多么聪慧,我想看看她是不是会攻击你说你说的一切都是假话。哈哈。 其实这只“鬼”是谁我们姐妹都知道。从Recent comments就可以看到她对其他姐妹的人身攻击。只是我们不挑明,在看她出丑而已。

#2013-02-23 23:04:42 by anonymous5574 @anonymous5574

你写的故事很感人,文章里对人物感情的描写也生动细腻,若是不出现倒数第二段临结尾处的那几句废话,应该是一篇很好的文章,可惜,你这人总是爱拿自己和古代的圣人相提并论,总认为自己比谁都高尚伟大,这是最让人不能接受也是最让人反感的地方。

#2013-02-24 01:17:42 by HuangPo @HuangPo

Beautiful. Inspiring story!

#2013-02-24 13:41:10 by Grace172 @Grace172

@xin73

"你知道比肤浅更糟糕的词是什么吗?是无知!比无知更惨的是什么?是弱智!我很幸运自己的肤浅!总比无知与弱智者更幸运幸运!" 哈哈哈哈。。。。 你真的太有才啦。真的很佩服你。

#2013-02-24 14:59:57 by xin73 @xin73

@anonymous5574
jwksdy444我真不忍心伤害你的自尊,你一个55岁的女人,在这样的国际论坛丑态百出,你到处去毁谤和攻击各位姐妹们。所有的匿名攻击毁谤全是你一人所为!你在论坛和博客穿梭行恶以解你的快慰。我一早就想揭发你。我实在是忍无可忍你的丑行。你以为你是谁?掩耳盗铃不正是你在学习古风吗?古人好的思想你无法沾边,坏的却成为你的绝活!
我为什么不可以向先辈们学习?为什么不可以并论?只因为你的理解能力太低能,不!你简直弱智!只因为我意识到自己的渺小所以向先辈们学习和向所有人传递更好的思想。我希望你的脑没有被水灌满还剩余一些脑细胞,好好地去理解阅读别人的文章,请你尊重每一个发帖者,不要那么狂妄!我以为55岁的女人很收敛谁知道你如此浮躁,性格如同三岁孩儿。你在别人的文章里一时露出你的丑样讲几句好话,一时匿名说一些风凉话。你在论坛红衣姑娘的贴里扮演者小丑的角色。我们所有人都在看你演戏。说真的你不去做演员真是枉你此生,你太有演员的天份了。。。。。。
我敢在此写博客写我的感悟,我会在乎和怕你的评论?只因你的行为让太多人对你反感!所以我不得不在次揭发你!当然论道德人格你拿什么与我比!?正因为你扭曲的人格,恰恰衬托我的高尚伟大,所以我所写的内容让你无法接受让你反感。我希望你能理解我们的万世先师所说的这句话:“躬自厚,而薄责于人,则远怨矣。”请你好自为之!

#2013-02-24 18:26:28 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@anonymous5574

在我打开网页第一面时,您的这条匿名评论后面恰好显示了您的注册名,这还真验证了Xin73的#2回帖。在我的一篇跟帖后面有您的匿名品论,我也是在网页第一面您的匿名品论后看到了您的注册名。我还是借用一下Xin73的一篇博客的题目:“欣赏他人就是庄严自己”,Jhon也在他的一篇跟帖中就匿名骂人者写过一句话“如果您说不出动听的话来,最好就不要说话。”既然您是在这个网站来寻求幸福的,那又何苦处处树敌呢?己所不欲,勿施于人。
“我们的眼睛不是缺少美,而是缺少发现”,希望您能用发现美的眼睛来阅读大家的博文和帖子,祝您开心。。。

#2013-02-24 18:39:20 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

The comedy has reached a fevered pitch. I am going to find the time to write a blog about it very soon.

@Grace172 - you are so brilliant. You use the phrase a "Chinese ghost" where I think in the west we might have said a "Chinese vampire" or perhaps a "Chinese witch", but your comments are so clever. You, more than any other Chinese person I have known, clearly get sarcasm, and you use it so effectively.

You should be blogging for us girl, you are a talent that has so much to offer to the conversation we're trying to foster here.

@xin73 - bravo, bravo, bravo. I am going to blog about this soon, but please understand we reject of 50% of the evil Chinese witch's comments. However, I salute you. You have really handled every stupid, vindictive comment that was let through by misjudgment with dignity and aplomb. We all admire you greatly for the way you have handled yourself.

But this sudden visible "outing" of the Chinese monster is brilliant. Of course I cannot say if you are right or wrong, but your strategy is brilliant. Again, we applaud you, for both your intelligence and for your continued kindness and noble thoughts in the face of the type of thinking that should have died out with the red guard.

Thank you for your nobility.

#2013-02-24 21:26:47 by sara1202 @sara1202

小丑,终有落幕一刻。(想必都知道这匿名小丑为何人了吧)

说你是评论家,不够格,评论家至少知道于解剖裁判别人的作品之前,先把自己的精神来一回解剖裁判;但,似乎你又热衷于此事,且心中充斥不平和愤恨,看来,又得给你冠一名:批评家。

本想应该留点情面,可惜似乎你又并不在乎颜面之羞,非但不懂尊重于别人,尽丢了中国人之气节;本想让你暂且裹着遮羞的布匹掩盖肮脏的灵魂,可叹似乎你也不在乎把自己赤裸身体里腐臭的灵魂暴晒于日光之下。若你尽想给中国人丢脸,此地非也,使馆门口你尽可小丑、泼妇施展贼眉鼠辈之功;若说你在此想寻找伴侣,看似非也,你尽干一些不务正业践踏别人心灵寻找快意之事。似乎你应趁着还未众人所知,卷着哪遮羞的布匹赶紧躲进黑暗的地洞,以免众人唾弃而遗臭万年。

首都浓郁的文化气息并未丝毫感染你,此乃无可救药,可悲、可叹、可怜之人。此地本也是干净之地,却被这浊流玷污。幸而,中国也只是少数的此类,否则,实乃中国之大不幸。


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