I guess if you're looking to catch monstrous, fat fish for a night of whatever you call sex with a monstrous fat fish, Tinder is the place to be. If you're looking for something a little more appetizing, and a relationship that's a lot more meaningful, stay right where you are on CLM and ALM.

For those of you who are unaware, Tinder is a new dating app in the UK that is catching fire among the casual sex / one night stand crowd. And it's rampant popularity is telling indeed about the state of society in the UK, and in much of the world. We are on a downward spiral that is hard to ignore, and I think that explains why there is a place for sites like CLM and ALM. They are a place of refuge for those of us Western men and Chinese and Asian women who think that love, and honour and a lifelong partner and companion are all things of great value, and worth preserving. We hope these sites feel that way to you and you are enjoying your time spent here with us