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NaNa was born and raised in a small and remote village of China, and had a childhood filled with wild freedom living in nature. After finishing her education at a local provincial medical college, NaNa has been living and working in small city in South China. She is a woman with a rich heart and a passion for life. NaNa's first series of articles will tell you about her experiences first working together with a few Western men.
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神秘客人 ( 第五篇 在去学校的路上) Secret Guests (Part 5) On the Way to School    

By NaNa
2172 Views | 8 Comments | 7/3/2015 11:48:26 AM

第二天早上8点我准时在宾馆楼下等我的客人,客人也是8点准时在楼下来找我,因为昨晚一起吃过了一餐饭而且还聊那么久,所以见到他们时已经感觉很熟悉和亲切了,迈克和他的朋友都笑着对我说:"娜姐!早上好!" 我也回应说:"大家早上好!



我对迈克说 :“我们单位车在那边等我们了,我们上车吧!我要带你们去一个离我们市比较远的小学校,路不好走比较颠簸,需要一个多小时的车程呢!“ 迈克笑着回答说:”没关系。” 我接着对迈克说:“ 请让你年纪最大的那位朋友坐在副驾驶坐吧!因为路不好加上他年纪比较大.所以我担心他容易累!” 迈克听我这么说就对那位年纪比较大的客人说:“娜姐说让你坐在这个位置呢!她担心你累。” 他的朋友笑笑说:“ 谢谢了。我不累的。” 我开玩笑的对他说:”我知道你不怕累的,因为你还很强壮的。” 他们听我这么说全都哈哈大笑,他们这一笑我也感染了我,笑后他们又用英语对话,从他们神秘的对话中我感觉好象是我中文所表达的意思和迈克翻译成英语之意是有所误差的,我想这就是让他们笑个不停的原因,看到他们神秘的笑容,我有点尴尬的问迈克说:“ 迈克,我是不是说错话了呢?” 我知道,在中文方面: “强壮”是指年轻力壮之意,但也有另一个意思是:指男士年纪虽然大了但他在性方面还是和年轻时代一样的依然没改变(现在我在这和大家讨论,但当时我没有这样直接问迈克的,因为在中国男女之间从不谈及性方面的问题,我们都认为这话是比较严肃而且是私密的,更不用说在客人面前了),但“强壮“在英语中用strong这词是不是来描述一个男士“性”方面的呢?在这只能请教英语专业人士才明白了。尽管当时迈克没有正面回答我的问话,但从他们神秘而又不同寻常的笑脸,我能感觉到要么是我用词不当要么是中英之意之别才让他们笑话的,他们这一笑却让我原来还是比较拘束的心情放松了好多。



上车了,我的客人个个都往后坐,我心里感觉很对不起他们,因为他们其中二个年纪都比我大但却把最舒服的位置让给了我,而且还把他们带上车的垫枕让给我垫背,我心里非常感激的说:“谢谢了!我不需要这些,你们用吧!” 但他们执意要给我,我盛情难却只能接受,心中感觉无比的温暖。而且每个客人都很体贴,他们看到我有点汗都不停的给我递上纸巾,在中国,一般是主人照顾客人但现在却让我的客人在车上照顾我,感觉自己真的好幸运,但更多的是感到心里过意不去因为总感觉自己照顾他们不周而已经反客为主了。



在去学校的路途上,迈克问我说:“ 娜姐,昨晚你回家后你的女儿问你一些什么话吗?” 我回答迈克说:“ 我告诉我女儿说你们很友好,个子比我们中国人高。特别是鼻子,个个都是高鼻梁,我还和我女儿说你们特别的有爱心,要不你们不会大老远跑到我们这里来绘我们山区的小朋友们献爱心了。我还告诉我女儿说你们还送给我一本厚厚的圣经书和一张DVD关于耶稣的赞歌呢!很好的!而且是用中文写的,我叫她有空也要看看。” 迈克接着问:“娜姐,你这么说后你的女儿怎么回答呢?” 我如实回答迈克说: “ 很好笑的,我女儿说她不喜欢外国的,因为她说外国总是打仗的,她害怕恐怖分子 。” 他们听到这句话后都哈哈大笑。我知道童稚无戏言,我女儿那时也就是小学生,那时她所知道的所谓的战争,是经常从电视所报导的关于“911“事件让她难以忘怀所以才这么说的,他们笑完后,迈克把另一个客人回应的一句话翻译给我说:“ 我们都希望世界和平,没有人喜欢战争的,战争是政府行为,不是我们每一个公民所希望的,再说战争是在境外不是境内,所以国内是安全的。” 迈克说完后又接着说:“你女儿好可受,我们可以看她的相片吗?” 我说:“是的。她确实很可爱,她的相片在这呢。” 我把我随身带的相片给他们看,他们看了都高兴的说:”真的好可爱,有空我们可以去看她吗?“ 我说:“好呀!她一定会很高兴。”



当提及小孩,迈克高兴的对我说,他也准备当爸爸了,他说他的太太还有不到一个月的时间要分娩了,我听到这样既高兴又难过,高兴的是为他初为人父而高兴,难过的是因他太太这时需要他在身边照顾她,但他却为了我们中国贫困山区小孩而远离他的太太没能照顾好他的太太和即将到世的小孩,他们舍己为人的精神时时在感动着我,此时我心中无限感激,但那时我只能对他们说的一句话就是:“ 迈克,你们真是太好了,你们是我一生中碰上最好的人。” 迈克谦虚的说:“娜姐,这没有什么呀!我们只是尽自己的一份力而已。”



提及家庭的事我们无话不谈,迈克还告诉我另三个客人他们家庭的成员及家事,他还告诉我另一个客人的太太还在住院呢?我好奇的说:“是什么病呢?” 因为我曾经在医院工作了几年,当提及住院时我最喜欢问的是什么病?他说:“因为不小心摔跤脚断了。” 听他这么说我心里吃了一惊,同时也替他们难过,他们不仅花费了钱,还花了大量的时间在中国默默的奉献,他们把爱给了我们中国贫困山区的小孩但却失去了照顾家里人宝贵的时间,此时我还能说什么呢,除了感动和再感动,唯一能做的是好好善待他们,好好配合好他们的工作,同时在默默的为他们祷告,祝他们家人里平安无事。



In the next day early morning l was waiting for my guests in hotel's downstair at 8 o'clock. My guests came to meet me on time. l felt so familiar and kind when l saw them because we had a meal together and talked so long time last night. Michael and his friend smiled and said to me: "good morning". l also responded: "good morning everybody".



l faced Michael and said to him: "Michael, my company's car waiting for us over there, please told your friend come to with me no. Today l would take you and your friends going to a primary school where far away from my city need take over an hour by car and the bad road go more bumpy and not good enough for driving." Michael answered: "yeah, l know". l said: "so please let your oldest friend sit on the co-pilot seat. Plus he is older so due to the bad road l worry about him tired easily”. Michael hear me said that, then he said to one of his older friend: "sister Na told me that she hope you sit on this position because she worry about you and afraid you get tired easily".



The one oldest of guest smiled and said: "Thanks. No problem. l would not feel tired.” l replied: "l know you was still strong so you never feel tired, haha!“ All of my guests were laughing after they hear that words l said. The voice they laughing was infect me but l felt embarrassed in the same time because l found all of my guests laughing with mysterious especially when they talking in English with each other. l tried to guess that maybe there are different meaning of the word "strong" between Chinese and English or because of l was not good in English and easy to misunderstand meaning the word "strong", but l still like my guests laughing because l just try to made a joking with them at that time and the voice their laughing made me did not felt nervous again and l asked Michael with embarrassment, "Michael, is the word l spoke not correct?" Michael just smiled and did not answer my question at that time.



l know the meaning the word "strong" in Chinese mean a person who younger and good health and have an enough power to lift weight, but there are still have another meaning in Chinese that describes an older man who make love as well as younger man and the sexual desire not decline yet even in their older period . in fact l did not also really want to talking about sex question at that time because the sex question always keep in mysterious and serious and we never talking with male friends especially with guests together. But now l express the word "strong" here for everyone who good at English and would like to learning the meaning the word "strong" from everyone.



After we got in the car all of my guests were sitting in the back. l felt sorry for them because the two of them older than me left the most comfortable seat for me. They still gave me the pillow they bring to the car. l appreciated them and said: "thank you so much. l did not need it. Please, you use it." But they insisted on me taking it. l only can accept as my heart felt difficult to refuse such kindness and warmth. l felt so warmth of my heart in this time. Every guest was so considerate and gave me the tissues when l sweating. l was appreciated but more felt was sorry because should l take care of them by Chinese custom that l being as a host in China but all of my guests were taking care of me all this time on the way to school.



During the way to school Michael asked me: "sister Na, did your daughter ask you something last night after you got home?" l answered Michael: "l told my daughter that you and your friend were so friendly and caring and look taller compare to Chinese. Especially the nose, everyone have high nose. l was still told my daughter that you and your friend were really kind and full of love in the heart that was why you and your friend came from faraway place to our city here to help the kids who from poor mountain area of China. l told my daughter that you send me a book of Bible and this book was really good because it was written in Chinese so l asked my daughter to reading too if she had free time.”



Michael asked me: "so how did your daughter responded to you after you told her these words?"



l answered Michael in honesty. l said: "my daughter was really cute. She told me that she did not like abroad because there were always war and she told me that she would be scared of terrible terrorists.“ Michael laughed and translated the words l said to his friends. All of his friends were laughing also after they hear that and Michael translated the words from one guest who said to me: "we all wish there were peace from all over the world. No one likes the war. The war was a government behavior and was not the hope of every citizen. The war was happen not in domestic. There was safety in domestic."



l know that childish thought was no joke. My daughter just was a primary school student at that time and always liked to speak direct what her see or about the news she got from watching TV. For my daughter that she knew all the so-called war because it was so often reported on TV about "911" event it left her unable to forget so she just said so. Michael continued: "sister Na, your daughter was really cute. Can we see picture of her?” l answered: "yes, here is her picture taken with me together recently.“ Michael and his friend smiled and look so happy when they looked at the picture and said: "your daughter look so pretty and lovely . May we visit her when we have free time?" l answered: "yes, thank you so much. She would be glad if you and your friend visit her.“



When we mention about kids Michael happily said to me he will pround of to be a father soon. He said his wife had less than a month's time to delivery. I heard that both happy and sad, happy was he fatherhood and happy, sad as l being as a mother and have more experience from my past and l try put my thought into his wife’s place and understand that his wife need him to take care of her in the side, but now he here in China away from his wife, he and his friend here for children who from poor mountainous areas of China and can't take good care of his wife and their baby coming into the world soon. They were always sacrificing themselves to help others.



All they had done have been touched my heart and immense gratitude in deeply my heart, but I can only say to them was: "Michael, you and your friend were very good, you and your friend were the best person l had ever met in my life." Michael said: 'no no, we just try our best to do it."



We talked a lot of about the family life, Michael told me the other guests of their family members and family life, he also told me another guest's wife was still in hospital. I was curious, "what disease?" Because I had been working in the hospital for several years, when we mention the hospital I like to ask what disease? He said: "because accidentally wrestling foot broken." I listened to him said that l was surprised and sorry for them and thought deeply, they not only spend the money and also spent a lot of time in China in silent dedication, they love Chinese kids who are impoverished and in mountainous areas of China, but they lost their precious time for caring for their own family.



What can l say for them or what can l do for them? There I was moved and moved again deeply in my heart. l thought only l can do was to treat them well and do a good job helping them in their work, and also silently pray for them and wish their family safe and happy .


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#2015-07-03 12:01:04 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

Hmmm. I have to admit that some of the discussions in this article have dampened my hopes that something is developing here between Nana and Michael. In fact given the news of his upcoming birth of a child, it's downright impossible to hope he strikes it rich with Nana, so now I guess I have to zero in on one of the other foreigners in the story, and hope for some romantic action to takes place in his time spent there with her.

You're not going to let us down on that are you Nana? Please say it isn't so.

Just the same the interaction here between the parties is quite fascinating, and you do have to admire immensely the goodness these strangers are bringing about at great sacrifice to themselves.

Another nice post, Nana. (clap)

#2015-07-04 00:11:25 by anonymous13533 @anonymous13533

NaNa once again a very enlightening entry in your blog series. I am not surprised Michael is married I just want to comment "what is he doing in China when his wife is less than a month away from delivering their baby?? He is taking a big chance as his wife theoretically could deliver at anytime and he is more than a little selfish by being away when he should be at home with his wife. My opinion only..

War happens all over the world unfortunately and is usually caused by religious beliefs, land expansion or politics(oil stocks and supply).

I truly hope that people like Michael and his friends can make a difference in this world, promoting peace and understanding is a noble endeavour. It takes dedication on each persons part.

I look forward to your next entry

#2015-07-05 09:35:12 by melcyan @melcyan

Hi NaNa
I am enjoying your blog entries. Every time I read them I learn something new. It will be a few days before I have enough time to make a comment in Chinese and this time it will be more than two words.

#2015-07-06 17:20:15 by surpurisena @surpurisena

Hello

John .anonymous13533 . melcyan

thank you for your comment . there are diversity style of peoples from all over the world . l think that l was lucky to met my guests in my life . because of them l have been learn something news and always give me courage in my life . l am appreciate everyone who promoting peace and understanding is a noble endeavour . because of them make everyone in this world feel warm more and more.

#2015-07-09 22:16:34 by QinQL @QinQL

@surpurisena

Hi Nana, I have already read your blog articles. How nice it is!

I like photos all in your blogs, especially the photo here. The girl beside you looks cutely and lovely. You both look happily together. After i read your article and look back the photo above, i quickly recognize the girl must be your lovely daughter! Thank you for sharing us the great photo. I like her, your daughter, too.

I also want to tell you i like the pose that your hand and finger have in the photo of introduction of your blog, and think of what your job, woking in a hospital, i am sure your lovely hands must have had help many people. You would help me also if i went to the hospital ]:)

I, for one, am looking forward to your next part.

#2015-07-12 14:55:42 by melcyan @melcyan

Hi NaNa
I read your blog several times again trying to work out what to say in Chinese. Each time I read it I am tempted to say something about “co-pilot”. Until now I have been very “strong” and resisted the urge to comment on the word.

About 18 years ago a young attractive French woman asked me to be her co-pilot. Her French accent was very “strong”.(can't escape that word) The words I heard her say were “Will you be my copulate?”
I said “yes” immediately. I drove about one kilometre to the place where she needed to go and she followed me in her car.

I must have done the job well because she asked me to be her co-pilot several times more.

#2015-07-12 20:47:27 by surpurisena @surpurisena

Hello QinQL
Thank you for your comment .. there are an old said from our china mean your will happy more if you share happy with someone together and your sad will reduce if you share sorrow with someone together . l am happy that can share about my feeling with you from past exeprience . l am appreciate CLM give me apportunity that share my feeling with you here . l wish you good lucky with your search.

#2015-07-24 21:02:29 by melcyan @melcyan

@surpurisena


我很强壮,但我的中文很弱

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