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神秘客人 (第三篇) 在宾馆Secret Guests (Part 3) In the Hotel    

By NaNa
2600 Views | 9 Comments | 5/18/2015 5:08:58 PM

Four Western men visit China, and Nana, a Chinese woman.

下午大约4点钟左右,司机打电话问我现在我在哪?我说正在宾馆的会客室呢?司机说他和客人已经到宾馆了,现在在服务台.,听到司机这样说我立即从会客室走向服务台,,我边走边抬头看向服务台,看到几个比较高的外国人正在和服务台里的服务员讲话。我想那肯定是我的客人了。他们的身高和中国人相比都显得比较高。我170CM的身高有时加上高跟鞋,平时走在中国人群中尤其是女同胞中总是显得鹤立鸡群。.但现在站在他们中第一次感觉自己变得矮了.



司机第一眼看到我就说:你来了,他们在这呢!我说:”好的“。司机微笑的对他们说:“这是娜娜,这几天由她来接待你们。”司机说完。他们都友好的向我点头表示欢迊,我微笑的对他们说:”非常欢迊你们的到来,你们一路辛苦了“。其中有个比较年轻大约28岁的客人说:”娜姐,我就是打电话给你的迈克”。我高兴的对他说:”你就是迈克呀,你的普通话讲得那么好“。 他谦虚的回答:”没有没有,我还多多向娜姐学习呢“。



按中国礼节来说我应该一一和他们握手并向他们介绍我的姓名.工作单位和我的工作职责,但当时只顾和迈克说话竟然忽略了这个礼节。过后不免自责:真是太大意了,很对不起远道而来的客人。



我知道迈克会说普通话,所以每次我开口说话时第一眼首先看向他,其他的客人时而好奇时而又笑笑的的看着我俩对话,时而他们自己又用英语对话,有时迈克又把我的话翻译给他们,偶尔他们也想把他们的问话通过迈克来问我,尽管其他客人不会说中文.,但看到他们看我的眼神和他们的肢体语言我能感觉得到:他们都是善良诚实正直有着良好教育的西方人。顿时我感觉心里好温暖,心中无限感慨:此时无声胜有声。



我们在服务台说了一会的话,我提议要带他们去看看我帮他们订的房间。当服务员打开门时,我和迈克边说话边走就走进他们的房间,当说完话时,我看到另一个客人用诧异的眼光看着我,这让我不免自问:天呀,我是不是失礼了,我是女性怎么就这样跟着他们走进男性的房间呢?我知道在中国不经过他人允许直接走进他人的房间是非常不礼貌的行为,我想不同的国家尽管习俗不同但这个礼节都一样的因为这是最基本的礼节,要不我的客人为何用这诧异的眼光看着我呢?



一想到那位客人看着我的眼神,感觉自己好象做错事了的小孩子一样心里很是纠结。但想想当时自己是出于好意,主要是想帮他们看看房间情况,因为当时订的房间是通过电话来订的,所以这次跟着他们走进来自己也想亲自查看房间是否安全,舒服,想到这些,自责又少了一些。我边想边走,尴尬的走出房间并对迈克说:“你们休息一会吧,5点半我在楼下等你们,我请你们到附近的餐馆吃晚餐”。迈克说:“好的,谢谢娜姐,稍会见”。



About 4pm afternoon the driver called to asked me where l am now. l replied to him that  l was waiting for them in the guest's room of hotel. The driver told me that they already arrived hotel and asked me to meet them in reception. l walking to reception at once after l knew they arrived reception of hotel. l saw four foreigner stand up in front of reception and talking with two of waiter. l guessed that they were my guests. All of them looked taller compare to Chinese. As a Chinese woman my height is 170cm and l look so tall when l am walking among Chinese, especially when l wear high heels. But the first time in my life that l felt so short and small was when l was with my guests together.



The driver looked at me first and said to me when he saw me walking to them: "Are you coming?" l said: "yeah". Then the driver smile and introduced me to my guests. He said: "this is NaNa and she will work with you together soon." All of my guests smiled and looked at me and one of youngest guest walking to me and said: "sister Na. l am Michael, always talking with you on phone."  l answered him happily: "Nice to meet you Michael. Wow. You speak Mandarin so good." He replied to me with humbleness, saying: "No no. l am still learning from you continually."  l said: "Michael, welcome to you and your friends. l am so sorry that you and your friends are tired from long fly." 



According to the China etiquette l should shake hands with them one by one and give welcome to my guests, and thanks for their coming, and should introduce myself by name and my job and major duty of my work. But so sorry, l forgot to introduce myself to them when l was talking with Michael. l felt a little hate toward myself that l was so careless to have forgotten what should l did in my work and felt  guilty about my guests from afar.



l knew Michael was good at speaking mandarin so l like to look at him first when we were talking and other guests like to smile and look at me talking with Michael, and sometime they would look a little curious and Michael would translate some word l said to them and they would smile more. l knew three of my guests did not know mandarin but l felt that they were friendly, caring, honest and well educated westerners from their eyes when they looked at me and the body language they had. Suddenly l felt so warm and heart infinite regrets: they were then more impressive than speech could express.



l took my guests to visit the room l booked for them after l talked with them for a while in reception. l walking into my guest's room while l was talking with Michael when a waiter opened the room for them. Suddenly l found there was one guest looking at me with surprise after l finished talking with Michael face to face. The way he looked at me made me realize maybe l did something wrong for them. l was asking myself: "My God. l was a lady. How had I followed them into the men’s room if l was polite?"  



l know about etiquette here in China that is not polite if we walk into someone's room before they did allow that, especially between men and women. l think this etiquette is the same anywhere even from different country with different custom because it is basic etiquette. That was why one of my guest looked at me with surprise.



The eyes of my guest looking at me made me feel like I was doing something wrong; the child in me was very tangled.  But l also thought that l just wanted to help them to visit the room l booked for them to be sure it was safe and comfortable, because the room l booked for them was through a phone call, and I did not know about the room yet. That was one of reasons l just walked into their room at that time.



Thinking this, my remorse was less, but still l said to Michael when l walked out from the room in embarrassment: "Michael, l would like to invite you and friends to have dinner at a restaurant tonight so l will wait for you and your friends downstairs at 5:30 pm." Michael answered: "Thank you sister Na. See you later."


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#2015-05-18 17:16:11 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

Nana, you are a tease! (doh) You've really got me curious about where this is going?

"l forgot to introduce myself to them when l was talking with Michael." - clearly there was some sort of romance building in the air, or at least in your mind, at the time. This man was having an effect on you, but where will it go next.

And now I am staring at the photo. You said Michael was a young man so it has to be one of the two on the left in the photo, and I am betting on the fellow in the green shirt.

Anybody care to make a wager?

#2015-05-18 20:56:51 by seekdream @seekdream

@surpurisena

I think Nana is a very literary talent novelist, you wrote the story is wonderful(y)

By the way I guess Michael is that boy in red T-shirt(emo)

#2015-05-19 09:52:03 by Macchap @Macchap

I think it's the dude wearing the red t-shirt that is Michael, he looks younger than the man in green. Who knows one of them have a profile on CLM...

#2015-05-19 10:15:03 by surpurisena @surpurisena

Hello John
very interesting of your curious and l would like to tell you who is Michael but so sorry it is not the right time to tell you because l need to respect my guest and need they approval first so now l need keep in secrect before they approval .hehe........but however l am aprreciate your comment and like the way your curious.

#2015-05-19 21:16:56 by Barry1 @Barry1

@surpurisena

它需要有才华的人把生活中普通的事情转换为文字的形式,朴实的描述但不是庸俗的描绘。

从一个小事情中创作了一个引人注目的故事,从一些微小的事情中提炼出了一个让我们感兴趣的和渴望阅读更多的故事。

你具备这种才能,恭喜你,你做得非常好,我的朋友。 (clap)

#2015-05-19 23:10:21 by anonymous13404 @anonymous13404

Actually I think Michael is the older of the two younger men so it is the man in the green shirt, also she had mentioned he was tall, she is 170cm, the guy in red is average height. It is interesting .....(clap)

It is starting to sound like a new whirlwind romance is in the air(*)

#2015-05-20 15:43:34 by surpurisena @surpurisena

Barry
你好!多谢你的表扬,这只是我内心的感受而已没有什么天才可言了,如果没有亲身经历过也写不出什么动人的故事的,我在这写的我也不知道动不动人的,因为是美好的回忆所以喜欢和大家在这里分享。希望你们阅读时不感到无聊就好了。
非常感谢大家的关心!

#2015-05-20 15:50:14 by surpurisena @surpurisena

Hello
@seekdream @Macchap
thanks for your comment . l hope it is wonderful story because it is good memory in my life so l would like to share with everyone here. but l think not really wonderful when l written in english because my english not good yet. but no matter l like to learn it .
good lucky to every one here

#2015-05-31 23:21:01 by melcyan @melcyan

这是我的第二个中国的评论。
你是身高170cm。你在中国高大,但平均在西方。
我身高180cm。我在中国高大,但平均在西方。
我的女儿175 cm。我的小儿子为195 cm。
今天的青年男女比上一代高。

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