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我是破落户 I Am A Poluohu (Basket Case? Impoverished Family? Lumpen Woman? Imperfect Family?)    

By Panda
16786 Views | 71 Comments | 11/20/2013 3:56:09 PM
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#2013-11-21 19:42:06 by panda2009 @panda2009


My son had stayed with me 1 month in Wuhan. He left for Chengdu on last Sunday morning. When I heard the heavy door shutting, my heart was broken up. Single parent familiy is really not good.

#2013-11-21 21:23:50 by panda2009 @panda2009

@Barry1 - I don't mind you use the line.

The responsibility to my son is higher than the feelings between man and woman for me. A good vomb is more importent than "Love" for a woman.

The appearance of someone which is given from parents before 30 years old, and cultivated by himself after 30 years old. People's appearance will be changed by the experience of life. Much laugher easily grows crow's feet, noted more easily spots between the eyebrows, blarney lip thin, thinking eyes are deep, sharp face is tight, kind person looks relax. Wisdom and knowledge would "carve" on the face, frustrations and tribulations will also appear on the face. So kind with kind looking, evil with evil looking, the appearance grows with the mind. Practice in the mind that is also practice appearance.

#2013-11-21 22:26:15 by sandy339 @sandy339

I feel a little bit heavy, I don't what to say...
I think you might need to take more initiative or readjust your life plan?
When I stuided Yoga, one of the Gurus said the best life syle is living alone, it is very simple and easy, so I think in our lifetime we need to make more or flexiable plans to ease and enjoy our life, there is no one fixed pattern for everyone, how could we enjoy our given life? It is still puzzling me, but we should be open-minded and easy on it for sure.

#2013-11-21 22:34:49 by panda2009 @panda2009

@anonymous8069 - My son's flight was on 8:30AM Sunday, so he was as slowly packing as doing something else. I was just doing my things slowly until 0:00. He asked me to sleep. I went to bed with hearing his slight noisy, then he closed my door for me. When I was sleepy, suddenly waked up from the door shutting. My sweet heart left me on 6:00AM. In case broke up, I swallowed 1/2 sleeping pill to sleep again, until waked up on 1:00PM. I must eat, and do something. Writing is a good thing to do. The last two blogs were written in English directly. But this one I must write in my mother tongue. When roared with pain someone definitly use his mother tongue. When I finished this artical, it was 2:00AM Monday. My heart was really broken up. I was really not willing to publish it.

After two nights sound sleeping, I started to translate the artical in English. I traslated one paragraph as soon as deleted the Chinese paragraph. I felt that I was deleting my pain. The thing was smooth. After I added the line: "I think that I will not make a lot of friends with this article, but I won't make enemies, either.", I was so relax. English language helped me reducing mental pain largely. I put it on my blog immidiately last noon, hoped to prove-read at night after work. I can't imagine that John published it so fast. There are some gramma mistakes, hope native English speaking or English teachers here to point out. Thanks!

#2013-11-21 22:42:45 by violaine @violaine


#2013-11-22 12:40:43 by panda2009 @panda2009


#2013-11-22 13:02:01 by panda2009 @panda2009


Although having said this, I prefer to provoke a reaction my my readers, if possible. Either good or bad.


“hi ,有幸看到你的博客,你有远大的卓识和深刻的思想。”你过奖了。有这句话应该跟我的调侃扯平了。

#2013-11-22 13:16:39 by panda2009 @panda2009


Autumnal Charm of East-Lake 东湖秋韵,这是我最好的一篇博文,在倒数第二页。这张蓝衣服的照片是我的一个朋友跟我一起游东湖时拍的,当时39岁,11月的一天,就我们两个游人,非常自在。这位朋友现在澳大利亚,不知她现在结婚了没?那张草绿色衣服的戴眼镜的照片,我放在我的PMI(Project Management Institute)家页上了,她是一个文静漂亮的项目经理。


#2013-11-22 13:25:00 by panda2009 @panda2009


终于露脸了。我总感觉你说话像我的那位在澳洲的女朋友,她的英文名叫viola. 中学是武汉外国语学校毕业的,是我妹妹的同班同学。就是因为在国内被剩太久了,去了澳洲也没跟我联系了。看来你不是她。我的这张蓝衣服的照片是她给我拍的。

#2013-11-22 16:43:44 by canadianmike @canadianmike

Single parent living is, of course, not ideal but it doesn't mean there is less love felt. It does not matter if you are a single parent or a couple when the time comes for a child to leave home. I believe that you have to make the best of the inevitable. When a son or daughter leaves for school or moves out on their own, it is one step in life's journey. The fact that your heart breaks for them shows how much you love them and care about their well-being. A parent who says "Bah! Good riddance" shows no love and may not have been a good parent.

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