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我家有儿初成长 My son grows up early    

By Panda
4809 Views | 18 Comments | 2/28/2013 5:06:33 PM

九寨沟 Jiuzhaigou Valley

空空,我亲爱的孩子:

真拿你这个90后没办法。总在关注你的空间,插画画得棒极了,后又迷上了摄影。我没记错的话是大二寒假买的尼康D90,还有一大堆书。大四寒假就更新成尼康D800。人家游戏公司要正式聘你去画游戏人物,你却要去影楼打工,并只打算干两个月。两个月没干满,就要出去旅游几天,老板炒了你,你还跟老板理论,“我回来还多做了几天。”大过年一人跑回武汉,理由是武汉拍照片能赚更多钱。

你总是架空你老妈。老妈回家看见心爱的儿子,赶紧出去买菜,不料回家的路上被一声:“我不回家吃中饭”震醒。好不容易挨到下午,忐忑不安地给你发短信:“几点回家吃晚饭?”“不吃。”儿子,这叫“回短信”还是叫“扔炸弹”?

第二天一早被我提前半小时叫醒,老大不高兴,但吃了我做的早餐,欣慰至极。下楼老妈也不敢送你,只能立在窗口用目光追着你孤单的背影,也不晓得你坐哪趟火车回珠海。后来才听说是你老爸送你去的机场。你很清楚自己的待遇。

从大年初二乘轻轨+高铁回武汉,到初八乘飞机回珠海,我相信这一路你是幸福的,高技术的交通,武汉、珠海两地不同的气候、不同的冷暖、不同的人间都被我的90后享有。老妈是初七早上回的武汉家。那么之前五天你独享清静,幸福吗?我问你奶奶,“空是不是有女朋友了?”奶奶一盆冷水泼来,“你想得美!”从你回汉第一天电话问我热水器怎么开?毛巾、浴巾在哪?后来每天QQ在线,冷不丁回我一言半语,判断出你女朋友是没有的。我让你找到了电影票,还有购物卡,从你买到的漂亮的新鞋,还有万达影城、美食广场、以及武商量贩的购物单等信息,我知道你是幸福的。孤单吗?90后都是以自我为中心,你们年轻、聪明。渴了,买瓶水喝,如果身边有朋友问,“怎么不给我也买一瓶?”他会反问:“你怎么不早说?”你们大都不懂得分享,谁叫你们是独生子女?被老板炒鱿鱼也不在乎,还会说:“成就的是你的事业,又不是我的。”

回珠海还是在那家影楼做两个月,再回学校完成论文答辩。老板还是蛮喜欢你的,谁叫你是90后?他要再找个90后,我想大概也是这德性。毕竟珠海爷爷奶奶的房子大,有各种各样的巧克力,比生活在武汉幸福。

中学你和爷爷奶奶去珠海生活。你好玩,和同学飞车去野狸岛烧烤、游泳,都是由你牵头,尽管你的年龄是班上最小的。你不肯上小学六年级,但中学成绩不佳。爷爷还安慰我说:“只要他幸福、快乐。”没想到你在关键时刻考上了珠海四中,没资格留级。老妈多想你慢一点长大。可你高中硬要转学念艺术,不好好学习文化课,大学又被你考上了。

90后大多是独生子女,你们有位同学的妈妈就是喜欢好多孩子去她家陪她儿子玩。你老妈也一样,你和同学肥仔住我家的那些天是你老妈最幸福的日子。肥仔吃我做的任何东西,这样带动你多吃了一些我做的饭菜。你的小房间是一间标准的男生宿舍。那花花的高低床是你8岁时跟爷爷奶奶去汉口的一家儿童家具厂订购的,有三层,可以睡三个小孩,另外还有一对小朋友的椅子。可90后就是缺兄弟姐妹。好在你回了珠海,那儿你有个弟弟,我的唯一的妹妹的儿子。只有他一人知道你何时回珠海,你们真不愧为一对好兄弟!

看到你的插画师,还有摄影师职业资格证书,老妈明白90后人是务实的。你们想赚钱养活自己,并且懂得享受生活,有手艺、有特长。回想老妈在你这个年龄,念了个档案管理,应该是去做文秘工作的,却被动接受了电力系统的招工,成了一名印刷工人,从铅字排版做到现在的WORD排版,从手工折页,做到机器折页,从重印刷到轻印刷。如果某天老妈我在珠海开个文印公司,空空,你会加入吗?专做图文处理。

珠海真美呀,蓝天、白云、大海,当然没有PM2.5。空空,好好珍惜吧......

你的老妈
2013年2月23日

My darling King,

No way to you 90hou后(the generation after 90s). I always pay close attention to your space. Your peculia illustrations are absolutely fantastic, but you are hooked on photography later. If I remember alright, you bought Nikon D90 in your sophomore winter vacation, and a mountain of books. In your senior winter vacation, you have just updated into Nikon D800. A videogame company had hired you to draw games figures for them, but you prefer to work for a Photo studio, and just going to two months. Two months was not full, you asked taking a trip several days. The boss fired you, you argued him, “I worked more days after return Zhuhai.” In New Year Days, you went to Wuhan alone, the reason was that you can earn more in Wuhan.

You always render your mom unfeasible. I saw my darling King when I backed home, hurried up to go to shopping, who would have though being shocked up by you on my backing road, “I will not have lunch at home.” Finally came to afternoon, I was very upset to send short message, “When will you back home for dinner?” “Stay off.” My boy, is this called “text back” or “throwing bomb”?

I waked you up ahead half an hour next morning, it caused you unhappiness. Extremely gratified is that you had my cooking breakfirst. I just can stand by the window to see you off, didn’t know which train number you would take to Zhuhai. Afterwards I just knew that your dad picked up you to airport. You are clear for your privilege.

From the second day of Chinese New Year you backed Wuhan by light railway + high-speed railway, until returned Zhuhai by air, I believe all the way-ay-ay that you were happy. High technical transportations, the different climates, different the coolness and heat, different the world of men between Wuhan and Zhuhai, all these were enjoyed by my 90hou. Your mom backed Wuhan on the morning of the seventh day of Chinese New Year. So you enjoyed quiet alone before five days, were you happy? I asked your granny, “Has King have a girlfriend?” Your granny poured cold water on me, “Wishful thinking!” From you asked me “How open the water heater?”, “Where are the both towel?” on your first day in Wuhan, and you were online later days, answered me a word or two, I judged that you haven’t a girlfriend yet. I guided you found movie tickets and shopping cards. From your new shoots, as well as the information of Wanda Cinemas, food plaza and the shopping list of WSLF, I know you were happy. Were you loneliness? The 90hous are all egocentrism, they are young, smart. Thirsty, buy a bottle of water, if someone beside asked, “Why not take me a bottle?” the 90hou would ask back, “Why didn't you say before?” Most of you don’t know sharing. Who told you are the only kid in your family? You don’t care fired by your bosses, and would say, “Achievement is your business, not mine yet.”

So you still work for the boss another two months when you back Zhuhai, then go to your school for your graduated thesis. The boss is quite like you, who told you are 90hou? If he hired another 90hou again, who would also be this kind of dharma. After all, grand parents’ house is large, where are various chocolates, it is happier to live in than in Wuhan.

You moved to Zhuhai with grand parents in your middle school term. You love fun, went to Wild Raccoon Dog Island by bicycles to BBQ, swimming with your classmates, always were you by the head, although you were the youngest one in your class. You refused studying in the 6th grade of primary school, but poor grades in your middle school. Your grandpa comforted me, “As long as he is happy, that’s enough.” Fancy that you were admitted to Zhuhai The fourth High School at the crucial time, no qualification to repeat a year. How do I hope you grew up slowly, but you insisted to transfer another high school to study Art, and not willing to study other courses hard, then you were admitted to the University of Chendu.

After 90s are mostly only children. You have a classmate whose mom just like so many his classmates to play with her son in her home. Your mom is same. You and your classmate Feizai lived in my home when those days were my happiest days. Feizai ate everything I made. So you also ate more at home. Your little room is a standard boys' dormitory. That beautiful high and low bed and another duad of chairs were ordered in a children furniture factory of Hankou by you and grandparents when you were 8 years old. There are three floors, can be slept by three children at same time. But 90hous just lack brothers and sisters. It was fortune that you had backed Zhuhai where is your brother who is my only sister’s son. Only he knew when you would back Zhuhai. You both truly are a pair of good brothers!

Seeing your certificates of illustrator and photographer, I know you 90hous who are flexible and pragmatic. You want to make money to support yourselves, and know to enjoy your life, you have a craft, specialty. Recall I was in your age, attended a two years college, File Management majior, should do secretarial work, but passively accept recruitment of electric company, became a printing worker. From the conventional typesetting to microcomputer composition, from manual folding to machine folding, from heavy printing to light printing. If I open a Printing Room in Zhuhai someday, would you join in with your PhotoShop CorlDraw?

How beautiful Zhuhai is! Blue sky, white cloud, and the ocean, of cause without PM2.5, my darling King, cherish carefully…

Your mom wrote in the night of 23/2/2013

Share you all my son’s space as a photographer here, http://jkxuan.pp.163.com/about/ Please pay attention to him, thanks.
The works I show here which had been made postcards, and I had also got a set of postcard.

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#2013-02-28 17:29:17 by anonymous5646 @anonymous5646

嘿,红衣美女,一直都很喜欢你的文章,朴实清新,自然,呵呵,,,真羡慕你有这么一个懂事乖巧的好儿子,这么小就知道养家糊口了,,我也有一个90后的儿子,不过他可没你的孩子这么懂事,都这么大了,有时还常向我伸手要钱,说是以后再还我,,,哈哈,,这是你儿子的作品,真美啊!真专业,我为你而感到自豪!他将来一会有大出息的!你这么优秀!又这么善良,这么美丽,又有这么一个值得骄傲的棒儿子,你一定会有好运,相信我说的,祝你在这一年里能遇见你中意的蓝颜知己。

#2013-02-28 23:54:23 by amylu @amylu

我也有一个儿子6岁了在台湾,要见他一次很难。做妈妈的都很不容易,很羡慕你。

#2013-03-01 11:20:02 by zhang77 @zhang77

可怜天下父母心,独子难教,物质贫乏的时代对孩子来说已经是遥远的历史,女儿听外婆说饥饿时代时,满脸疑惑的问到“为什么不去超市买些吃的呢?”。孩子们将无法理解哪个时代。我很庆幸女儿没有被她的父亲带回台湾,每天被女儿妈长妈短的,抹去了单身孤单,感谢女儿的陪伴。

#2013-03-01 12:02:22 by destiny1 @destiny1

wow,好有感触啊,一个母亲的心声。你有一个不安份的聪明机灵的儿子,真令人欣慰。我们这一代很不幸地遇上了独生子女的年代,更何况这孩子又在单亲家庭里长大,我们都是希望把快乐幸福带给他。读完你的文章感到好欣慰!

#2013-03-01 12:15:28 by Grace172 @Grace172

Panda, 真的很希望你的宝贝儿子空空能认真读读你这封信,希望他能从中体会你的心情和理解你对他无私的爱,希望他学会感恩,学会关怀家人。
他的作品非常棒!我想他是个非常喜欢大自然喜欢自由的好孩子。所以希望他的心也像他的作品那样纯洁、无私、广阔。如果他愿意和你共同创业的话那是最好的啦。我祝愿你们事业成功。如果他有自己的打算要创自己的事业,你也会支持他的,对吗?!无论如何孩子永远是妈妈的最爱!祝福你们!

#2013-03-01 12:33:43 by panda2009 @panda2009

@anonymous5646 谢谢你的吉言。
@amylu 我目前情况是还不错。
希望大家的生活都更美好!

#2013-03-01 19:03:04 by panda2009 @panda2009

@zhang77 @destiny1 @Grace172
儿子读我的信的。我妹妹还有他爸爸也偶尔给他写信。他读初中时我就要他读纸做的书本。他从小学起就读《哈里波特》、《柯南》系列小说。到现在还特爱买书。我对他目前的状况很满意。

#2013-03-01 19:27:40 by sunrise68 @sunrise68

母亲优秀自然孩子也就聪明,你的写作很优美,很感人。我们这几个似乎都是做母亲的人,我与我14岁的儿子这8年间一直是聚少离多,所以此时我不免有些心酸。

#2013-03-01 22:24:51 by panda2009 @panda2009

@sunrise68
其实我最早的博文都是曾在报上发表过的,当时JOHN要求用英文写作,所以全翻译成了英文。想读中文的可去我的新浪博客:东湖秋韵
作家张爱玲将女人直接定义为:饮食、繁殖。做母亲是女人的本分,其代名词是:坚强

#2013-03-02 02:13:37 by danruble @danruble

Panda, I recall your earlier blogs about your son..Although the trials and tribulations of rearing an obstinate and independent child can be tough, oft times such rebellion leads to great artisic endeavors. You seem to have raised a good son, and, difficult to image a more striking postcard. Beautiful...

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