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归心似箭 Anxious to Return (10th, July, 2014)    

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Piles of books on the desk...there was a high pile of empty boxes...

空前天在家就订好了回珠海的高铁票,昨天吩咐我将他所有的衣服都从抽屉里取出放沙发上。晚上他回家一边听法语一边整好了行李。今天一早就跑汉口去考试。考试时间是9:00AM-12:00AM,结果他不到12点就回家了。我马上给他做饭,他一边准备冲凉,一边对我说不用做饭,我问几点的火车,他说不用我管,又说下点面条就行,我说那就做个番茄炒蛋吧。他不理我,洗完澡,关上房门,还冲我说:“你是聋子?叫你不做饭。”



 



Kong had a reservation of high-speed rail tickets at home. He was anxious to return to Zhuhai. Yesterday, he told me to take out all the clothes from the drawer and put them on sofa. When he was at home in the evening, he had finished packing his luggage while listening to French. Early in the morning, he went to Hankou for his test today. The test time was 9 AM - 12:00 and as a result, he was home before 12:00. I cooked for him immediately as he prepared shower. He told me



“You don't have to cook a meal.”



I asked “What time is the train.”



He said, “It doesn’t matter, noodles is ok.”



I said, “It's a tomato scrambled eggs, please.”



He ignored me, then, when he came out of shower and shut the door, he bluntly said to me "Are you deaf? Don't cook!"



 



一会儿工夫,两盘菜上桌,还有一盘芹菜红椒爆炒牛肉片,一碗米饭,我告诉空,饭菜都在桌上,吃不吃听便。接着我听奶奶的电话,听见空到饭厅吃了饭,然后关门走人。如此归心似箭地回珠海,从去年十二月到现在,在武汉整整呆了七个月,学法语,拍片,看电影,今天终于考完,得了个B1,还像受了天大的委屈,拖着行李箱赶紧离开武汉。



 



In a few minutes there were two dishes on the table, another plate of celery red pepper, beef slices for a while, and a bowl of rice. I told Kong that the food was on the table, eat or not to eat to please yourself. Then I listened to a phone conversation with grandma. I heard Kong go into the dining room to have the meal, and then close the door to leave. He was so anxious to return Zhuhai. From last December till now he had stayed in Wuhan for seven months, learning French, filmmaking and watching movies. He finally finished today and got a B1 on his French test. He also had a big grievance and was dragging his luggage to leave Wuhan as soon as possible.



 



他的学校录取通知书上月末到手,如果过不了法语A2,无法拿到签证。结果他今天考了个B1,可喜可贺。意味着他到了法国半年后就可以申请研究生入学或者摄影专业的大三或者大四的学习。下一步他将要自己完成法国领事馆的面试(约到7月底或者8月初);如果过了,就是8月中旬的签证。



 



His school admission notice came to hand late last month. If he did not reach the French A2 he would be unable to get a visa. Today as a final test result, he got a B1. Letter day! This means he can apply for postgraduate entrance to learn professional photography at the junior or senior level in France after six months. Next, he will finish the French consulate interview (about to the end of July or early August); If he passes, he will receive the visa in mid-August.



 



还有什么可说的?桌上大堆的书本,那是要我寄回珠海的,叫他也把衣服留给我寄,箱子腾出带一壶茶油回珠海,他回答:“想都别想!”满腔怒火,这是为哪般?翻看他书写工整的法语笔记,还有新买的画册,相机又换了一部索尼的,非常轻巧,空盒子码得老高。一种解释,学法语跟他出去拍照的欲望相冲。七个月,时间不算太久,法语考试最终取得胜利。还有个B2保过班,他没参加,三个同学凑一块,一共花2000元买来课件,省了一大笔B2班的学费。实际上,空最后两周一直在家听这个B2课件,并上冲刺班的课,最终拿到B1的成绩。青春无敌!



 



Say what? Piles of books on the desk that need I mail to Zhuhai. I asked him to leave clothes at home so I can also mail them to Zhuhai. I wanted him to take a pot of tea oil back to Zhuhai.



He replied "Don't even think about it!"



Why was he so angry? Through his good French note writing, as well as new album, and a new SONY camera that was very lightweight, there was a high pile of empty boxes. One explanation: French is an obstacle to his desire to take pictures.



Seven months time was not too long and the French test is the final success. There is also a B2 class that he didn't attend with three classmates gathered together. The total cost was 2000 yuan to buy the courseware. He would have saved a lot of B2 class tuition fees. In fact, for the last two weeks Kong had been at home listening to B2 courseware and went to sprint class, finally got a B1 grade. The youth is invincible!



 



七个月的室友,说走就走了。再过三年,我也将退休离开武汉。但武汉的这个62平米的小客栈还在。



 



My seven months’ roomie just went away. After three years, I will retire from Wuhan. But this 62 square meter Inn is still in Wuhan…


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#2014-07-15 00:31:35 by QinQL @QinQL

Panda,

"你是聋子?叫你不做饭。”

看似叛逆的他,其实是在心疼妈妈,怕给妈妈添麻烦,担心累着你呢!

而他自己呢,向着自己目标很努力地学习,还很懂得通过自学节省下大量学费,尽量多点靠自己,帮助家里减轻经济负担。

Panda, 你有一位值得你骄傲的儿子!




#2014-07-15 21:00:57 by panda2009 @panda2009

@QinQL
我对同事说:“儿子考了个B1,该他狠。”同事骂我:“你真贱。不过你儿子读书并没叫你操心。”现在回想起来,不是不操心,是他根本不让你插手,小时候功课过了小学从没好过,可能是大人越期待他学好什么,他偏不学什么。自己想学的专业很用功,有片约时从不睡懒觉迟到。中学十年,我不在他身边,他的分数不好,他的初中班主任在我到珠海休假时,还叫我去她办公室,劈头就质问我:“你们对孩子期望值是不是过高了?”我回家对奶奶说:“这班主任真岂有此理,对孩子的期望那是我的事情,跟她有什么关系?”结果儿子初中毕业,上高中后还去初中学校看望他的这个班主任。孩子良心好是第一位的。学习上的事情,我总在心里安慰自己,要相信他的学习能力。我给他寄回去的书就有18公斤。他爱读书,爱买书。申请法国的学校,写的自传非常棒,作品集也弄得不错。现在在珠海,还在晚上学习法语在线课程,非常主动,不需要任何监督。

对儿子,我更多的是接受,接受他一切优缺点。我对自己有很高的期许,希望儿子为有我这样的妈妈而骄傲!

#2014-07-15 21:59:26 by yiyun2519 @yiyun2519

你有个好儿子,可以肯定的是你肯定是个好妈妈,我也有个让我深感骄傲的儿子,什么事情都说妈妈不要你担心...但是哦,身为他娘的我,又怎能不担心呢?
潜着水看了很多你的文章,感觉你很有学识,很钦佩你,常常对照自己感觉自己很肤浅一样,当然总会瞬间凌乱自己的没文化,真可怕.....呵呵.
祝福..

#2014-07-15 22:24:07 by chengcheng72 @chengcheng72

@panda2009
照片中的母子长得多么地像啊!我女儿的目标也是摄影师,我也会支持她的!回头跟你请教你的儿子申请了哪所法国学校,让我女儿跟小哥哥看齐,把小帅哥哥哥做偶像!

#2014-07-15 22:32:41 by weiming @weiming

嗯,你真的很棒,我看你的翻译仔细推敲了又敲,让我很佩服。我想你儿子应该也象你,有一股不服输的劲头。

#2014-07-15 23:18:03 by QinQL @QinQL

Panda,

“对儿子,我更多的是接受,接受他一切优缺点。”是的,父母对子女的爱常常是100%。
但反过来,就不一定是的了。聪明的父母往往也不去奢求那份回馈之爱(国外就不讲孝顺呢)。
我不敢让我女儿因我而骄傲(因为我在工作上的确不是那种拼命三郎,锐意进取型,只求认真完成日常事务即可),
但求她一想起她的妈妈就觉得温暖、开心,
我就心满意足了。

对于孩子的学习,我发现我绝对是拉后腿型的家长。
告诉你一个秘密,至少有3次我帮我女儿写过作业了。
每天学校布置的的家庭作业不少啊。
我对学校的这个做法,极不赞成。
但感受到来自老师和其他家长的强大压力,
我是敢怒不敢言啊。

有次,我好不容易有个机会带着女女去看一个话剧。
那晚的作业我只得帮她了。
要是她是男孩子,不怕老师批评,我就不用帮她了,呵呵。

我家的电视、网络,也向她随时开放的。
我的现金就放在抽屉里,我家的抽屉没有一个上锁,
她随时都可以拿。

初中第一个学期时,有帮她做作业。
但就在刚刚过去的这个学期,就没有了。不需要了。
因为老师也不怎么查她的作业了。

她们现在考试也多,每个月就考一次,叫月考。
也好,随时掌握学习情况。
她考得好啊,不是全校第二,就是第一,总在前三。
所以,老师也不用管她了
和我一样,放任自流了。

得了,一说起孩子,就啰嗦个没完似的。

只是期待我们的孩子都懂得自己管理好自己
远远地超过我们!

Panda,我还记得你和我们分享过的那首诗on children。


#2014-07-16 14:21:36 by YinTingYu @YinTingYu

@Cao Hui
Hello Panda???
Ah,...is my first time to reply.
I have noticed your posts.
I like very much.
Is very sweet story you present.
May I please give you my assessment?
I do so anyway.

Look,...Kong now becomes a man.
You have done the good work as mother with very best you can !!
Is important.
But now,...Kong must find his own way.
Ah,...as long as you live,...you will be his mother.
He begins to see now but,... will see more later.
Also his father he will see.
This is natural thing.
Takes time ????

I know you want him to become best in his field.
This is mother's and father's hope for child.
So natural,..........
But I wish on your part,....You believe sincere.

Ah,...if you cook scrambled eggs and tomatoes while he is home,...make enough for two.
If he does not want,...OK !!
You have "leftovers".

Really I say,... your son is smart and he knows what to do and where to go !!
Let him do.
Even if is late beyond your grave,...Hong will make you proud.

I shut up now.
Peace and Blessings,
Yin Ting Yu,...a.k.a. Gongji

#2014-07-16 21:01:28 by panda2009 @panda2009

@yiyun2519
谢谢你读了我好多的博文,都慢慢写到99篇了,写了四年。对儿子担心没用,耐心是第一位的。教育是一个漫长的过程。
@chengcheng72
申请学校这些事情都是我妹妹在珠海一家中介帮忙打理,她只要我当好老妈子,儿子更不跟我谈这些事情。等我以后知道了再告诉你。他本科在国内学的是平面设计,如果去法国还学此专业,可直接读研究生。但他偏要学摄影,这样可能要从本科三、四年级读起,再读研。
@weiming
在我最痛苦的时候,我妹妹对我说:“姐,你从来就没输过。要结婚就结了,人家敲锣打鼓把你娶回家,你要离就离了。”
@QinQL
谢谢你还记得那首诗“论孩子ON CHILDREN”
说起育儿,我也没什么心得,只能如实记录下他这一段跟我在一起的日子。也是告诉我潜在的伴侣我最近的生活状况。

#2014-07-17 19:20:10 by sandy339 @sandy339

Hi Panda "再过三年,我也将退休离开武汉。" 退休后,你去哪?

#2014-07-17 21:12:10 by panda2009 @panda2009

@sandy339
我是珠海父母家里的户主,户籍在珠海,可能退休后社保医保都将在珠海.武汉这屋肯定是名副其实的客栈,家里人手一把钥匙,有事情来武汉就住一下.现在趁我还在武汉,你来武汉也欢迎住我家.:)

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