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五一节,晴。 南京 May Day, Sunny. Nan Jing    

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Panda with friend in Nanjing

该拿的学位都拿了,该考的不该考的考试也都通过了。现在的业余时间都在练瑜伽、写博客,除了上班,没有什么任务必须在某个时间节点上完成。既然没有爱情,就花时间多补点亲情债吧。本着这样的想法,无论大节小假,我都提前二十天奔铁路12306网预订回珠海的火车票,回家看望父母和儿子,并带去武汉的时令蔬菜。武汉冬天冷,打了霜的红菜苔长得粗壮肥美,那种矮胖的白菜也特别好吃。特别是荠菜,珠海是根本看不到的。元旦以前,我在家起码做了四百个荠菜猪肉春卷,元旦带到珠海的起码有三百七十个春卷,在家过油炸一遍,再用装米的盒子包装好带回家。在珠海呆四天小假,回汉后打电话问老妈,问春卷味道如何?老人不能多吃油炸食品,大部分春卷进了我妹妹家。我妈说:“我不敢告诉你,怕你听了在家又傻着包好多春卷。你妹妹对我说;‘你看姐姐做的春卷比你以前做的又漂亮又好吃。’他们一家三口赞得不得了。”我说:“那春节再带点来。”我妈说:“再别做那么多,我知道一个人做那么多春卷非常辛苦。”结果春节我又做了二百多个春卷带回家。春卷皮的价格在春节前飞涨。我妹妹在家用春卷招待客人,非常体面。做春卷时需要现买刚在铁板上烫好的皮,拿回家趁热包。所以这事在珠海是绝对办不到的。如果二月份过完,荠菜就开花变老,因此过完春节回到武汉,趁天冷,又在家做了一些春卷,放冰箱冷冻,等到清明节四天小假回珠海前从冰箱拿出来过油炸一遍,又带给了珠海的妹妹。另外还带去了莴苣、野泥蒿。

All degrees had been got, all examinations which should be tested or not had been passed. By now, all my spare time are used to practice yoga, write blogs. Except daily working, without any task I must finish on some node time. Since without Love, so I take time to remedy more debts of domestic affection. Based on this thought, no matter long and short holidays, I always book tickets on www.12306.cn before 20 days to back Zhuhai, visit my parents and son, and take them seasonal vegetables from Wuhan. It is cold in winter of Wuhan, red bolt nipped by frost, grows thick and fat, in addition, that dumpy pak-choi is also delicious. Especially shepherd's purse where is not in Zhuhai. I had made about 400 shepherd 's-purse pork spring rolls before the new year. There were about 370 spring rolls which were taken into Zhuhai by me. I fried them at first, then put them into rice boxes after cold to take my home in Zhuhai. I just stayed in Zhuhai four New Year Days. When I returned Wuhan, asked mom how the taste the spring rolls? Old people can’t eat much more fried food, so lots of spring rolls were taken into my sister’s house. My mom said to me, “I’m afraid to tell you. Worry about you would be silly to make more spring rolls after hear. Your sister said to me, ‘Jiejie(older sister)’s spring rolls are more beautiful and delicious than you made before.’ The three people of their family all were full of praise.” I said, “ok, I will take some spring rolls again when I come to Zhuhai on Spring Festival.” My mom said, “don’t make so many again. I know it is a very hard working to make spring rolls alone.” So I made more than 200 Spring rolls again, and took them to Zhuhai on Spring Festival. The price of spring roll skin was rising sharply before Chinese New Year. My sister entertained guests with spring rolls at home, it was very graceful. Making spring rolls need buy the hot skin at present which have just been ironed, take home to roll while the skins were still hot. So this thing can’t be done in Zhuhai. The shepherd’s purs grew old after February. So when I returned Wuhan after Spring Festival, it was still cold, I made some spring rolls again, and freezed them. When I backed Zhuhai in Qingming(Tomb Sweeping Days), I took out my spring rolls from refrigerator, fried them, put them into boxes when they became cold, then took them to my sister in Zhuhai again. In addition, I also took some lettuces and wide mud artemisia.

四月十二日到十四日,我又在12306网订好了回珠海的火车票,准备四月三十日下班后晚上出发去珠海,五月四日一早回武汉上班。一周后,国务院办公厅通知:五一小假为:三月二十九日至五月一日,二十七、二十八日两天上班。我们公司将年休假放一天进去,放假时间就是二十八日至五月一日。没关系,改签火车票。再登录12306,傻了,凌晨1点的火车,老爸说这个时间坚决不能出去。那我改地方吧,去南京玩,离武汉不远,票多的是。改目的地,不成!12306说只能改签时间,不能改签目的地。只能先退掉回珠海的火车票,再订去南京的票。这回成功了。于是我去南京会了一位女画家。

From 12th to 14th, April, I had booked the train tickets to go-back Zhuhai from Wuhan. I planed to leave for Zhuhai at the night of 30th, April, and back Wuhan in the morning of 4th, May. After one week, General Office of the State Couneil notified, May holidays were 29th, 30th, april, and 1st, May, work in 27th, 28th, April. So I had to got my tickets endorsed for the early days. When I loged in www.12306.cn again, I got a really nasty shock this time, there was just the train in 01:00. My dad told me that I can’t go out at this time. So I changed places to go to Nanjing where is not so far from Wuhan, and lots of tickets. So I had to return the tickets of Zhuhai, then booked the tickets of Nanjing. I went to Nanjing to visit a female painter.

她曾经拜访过我的新浪博客,我回访她的新浪博客,发现她是一位小有成就的画家。多幅作品在国际上获奖。并且也单身多年,儿子在上海工作,她独自一人住在南京,自己一边作画,一边教孩子们绘画。她今年56岁。

She used to visit my sina blog. When I visited her sina blog, found she is an achievement painter, many arts were won prizes on international painting stages. She had been single for many years. Her son works in Shanghai now, and she lives in Nanjing alone. She as produces works of art, as teach children painting. She is 56 years old now.

我们都谈了一些各自网上交友的经历。她也是CLM上的会员。并且在其他交友网站上也注册过,还有相亲成功的朋友向她推荐的网站。她不懂英文,又不愿找婚姻中介服务,所以简直毫无实效,浪费了好多时间。

We talked some experiences of online match with each other. She is also a member of CLM. And she was also registered on other website. There was also friends who was successful online match introduced her some websites. She doesn’t know English, and are not willing to hire marriage intermediary institution, so without any substantial results, killed so much time.

我向她讲述了自己从2005年2月上MATCH网付费找对象到现在的所有经历,虽然没成功,但实际上大大地充实了自己。从2005年到2010年,一直与一位住在夏威夷的美国作家通信,大大地丰富了自己的英文书面表达技能。后来因为我请一位武汉大学的教授翻译了他的小说,他不愿付翻译费,并取消了这个项目,也断绝了与我的EMAIL联系。2009年年底在CLM注册,后成为这儿的博客手,真正开始了英文写作,这比写英文信辛苦得多,所以一度关闭了自己在CLM上的会员帐号,专心写作。因为人的精力是有限的,并且写作还必须投入情绪,自然也没情绪跟男会员在线聊天,跟每一个人介绍自己几岁了?离婚几年?有几个孩子?喜欢什么颜色?特别是碰上一些个更年期男子,简直比更年期女人讨厌十倍。我告诉他你问的所有问题我的资料上都有,而且博客里还有关于我的离婚的原因等等好多的细节。但这人就是坚持,我不看你的博客,我就要你专门为我写,专门跟我一个人讲话。他看我有点不耐烦,还气愤地说:“你不值得我的爱。”这不是扯横皮吗?由于对MATCH网上男会员的良好印象,我2010年在CLM开博后,又在MATCH网上付费注册,很快与一位美国的项目经理取得联系。他的EMAIL总是非常简短,只谈具体事情。SKYPE总开着,因为所有工作联络都需要SKYPE完成。在他不工作的时间,我们就聊一会儿天,直到去年我也参加PMP培训,将自己整成了个项目经理。现在我们还保持着SKYPE上的联系。

I also told her all my experiences from February, 2005 paying www.match.com until now. Although I’m not successful to find a husband, but I’m really enriched myself in the process. From 2005 to 2010, I had been emailing with a writer who lives in Hawaii, highly improved my English writing skill. I registered on CLM in December, 2009. Then I became a blogger here, so really started my English writing. It is harder than writing English letters. So I closed my member account for a long time, get on with my writing. Because my energy is limited, and writing must in mood, naturally without emotion chatting with male members, tell everyone how old is me, how long had I got divorce, how many children do I have, what color do I like, etc. Especially met some men with involutionalparanoia, they are 10 times annoying than women at the change of life. I told him all your questions where are my profile, and so many details in my blogs. But he just insisted, “I needn’t read your blogs. I just need you chat with only me, and write for me only.” He felt me a little impatient of him, be angry to me, “you are not deserve my love.” Is this shit? Because of fine impress on www.match.com before, I paid here again on 2010, and connected with a project manager in USA soon. His email is always very short, just talk about specific things. But skype is always online, often have meetings here. When he off work, we just chat a while, until I also attended PMP training, and became a PM last year. By now, we still keep connection on Skype.

网络交友这么多年,从在线认识到约会都是非常困难的,而结婚更是另外一回事了,如果以婚姻为目的,特别是跨国婚姻,上交友网站是很难得到想要的结果的。“约会”跟“结婚”本身就是两个不同的概念。那么“爱情”呢?“爱情”也是个好东西,每个人都渴望“被爱”,但必须具备“被爱”的条件。

So many years of online friendships, it is very difficult from knowing each other to dating, even not marriage. If just in order to marriage, especially cross-country marriage, online dating is difficult to reach the goal. Dating and Marriage are originally two different concepts. But Love? Of cause, Love is a nice thing. Everyone is eager for “Be Loved”, but must own the prerequisites of “Be Loved”.



Show you my friend Fengyan's job below. She is a great painter.


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#2013-05-17 19:08:18 by lhui @lhui

hi,姐们~~读过几篇你的博客,惟真,这篇优佳,浓浓的亲情及满满生活气息迎面扑来~~

不由慨叹:会生活的女子,她的人生往往就会多出一份残缺与遗憾,又或许是因为这份残缺与遗憾才塑造了高情商的女子?~~因此也就印证了那句“得失总相依”?又或曰正是因为有了这份残缺和遗憾才会产生唯美的人生?未知~~呵呵

和你的人生轨迹有些许相似(只是相较于你的悠闲,我多了一份事业上的拼搏),所以特别赞赏你的心境~~加油~~祝好~~

#2013-05-17 20:00:58 by panda2009 @panda2009

@lhui
又遇到一位知音,真好!生活真美好!Good friends! Good life! Everything is good! I love every nice thing!

#2013-05-17 22:47:39 by fengyan5746 @fengyan5746

欣赏你的文章,也欣赏你的诚实为人以及好学和认真。

#2013-05-18 08:20:20 by anonymous6204 @anonymous6204

@panda - Your friend's paintings are amazing. So much talent and skill. Thank you for sharing this story and pictures with us.

#2013-05-19 09:24:44 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@fengyan5746

Hi,Ms.Fengyan.I have read your profile.You are a nice lady.
Having read the blog,I really admire your talents.

As a little girl,I was interested in drawing very much.I had been studying watercolor painting without teacher's instruction during my elementary school. It's a pity that I gave up drawing when I went to high school. Until now, I'm still interested in enjoying the works of art very much. If my life can restart, maybe I'll choose to be a painter as my carrier.

Best regards.

#2013-05-19 14:58:51 by fengyan5746 @fengyan5746

@Apinkapple 谢谢你欣赏我的绘画,如果你喜欢绘画,可以继续自学,其实我也是从小爱好绘画,并且通过自学考取师范的。
Thank you for your appreciation of my paintings, if you like painting, can continue to learn, I also grew up interest in painting, and through self-study normal.

#2013-05-19 21:52:33 by panda2009 @panda2009

@anonymous6204
It is really not easy for a single mother. I appreciate all valueable things.

#2013-05-19 22:31:54 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@fengyan5746

Ms.Fengyan,How are you ?
I'm happy that you replied to me and I'm also glad you can write in good English.
Wish you find a nice guy who can admire your talent and paintings and can be your soulmate.

Good luck and take care


#2013-05-19 22:51:13 by destiny1 @destiny1

你的文章很质朴,真挚,很喜欢。
fengyan5746,我很喜欢你的画,我喜欢这种亲手描绘出的美妙感觉。羡慕一下!

#2013-05-20 14:06:43 by fengyan5746 @fengyan5746

@Apinkapple Hi thank you, I will not English, rely on online translation, thank you for your appreciation and encouragement.

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