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I’m David and I’m an Online Dating Addict: It’s a fact. I’m an online dating addict. Like most people addicted to something or someone, I don’t want to be this way. I hope to break the cycle and be a recovering addict and find a real-life long-term relationship leading to marriage with a Chinese woman.
Do you remember the old Arby’s commercial? Different is good was its catchphrase. Well, this is the theme for today. Chinese women are different than American women. Making this assertion has sometimes landed me in hot water, though mostly with non-Chinese.
Key words: online dating, Chinese women, swimsuit, photo exchange, genuineness, dilemma, blackmail
Okay you've found your special lady on this website and you've been chatting on the site for weeks maybe months and maybe you have even fallen in love with each other, now what?
To those familiar with the intricacies of many American online dating services, the methodology of ChinaLoveMatch can seem incredibly crude. In contrast to the lengthy questionnaires and personality profiles of such sites as eharmony and match.com, CLM requires you to submit only the most basic personal information along with a few statements about yourself and your ideal mate. How, you might ask, can such a slender set of facts lead to a lifelong match?
Language - the basic principle that when we speak we are understood, a principle we take for granted until we are forced to understand someone else`s viewpoint or they are forced to understand ours. An example of this would be when my China girlfriend and I were having a chat conversation on the ChinaLoveMatch.net site and we were discussing our attraction to each other. I had typed that I was drawn to her like a moth to a flame and I thought that she would understand my meaning. Without even a second thought I hit the enter button and two seconds later my message was received.
I’d barely stepped into the shower in my unheated 40-degree apartment (the central heating was turned off several weeks ago because the government had ordained it to be officially “spring” i.e. “warm weather”) and was anticipating the warm spray when … dribble. Drip. Blip. Nada.
Ok, so it was around February 2009, I had been single for about 2 years since my last girlfriend. Happily never married to any of the crazy American women I had known over the years. Another Valentine's Day had come and gone, I think I started to go through a mid-life crisis or something. I realized my life didn't have much meaning. I spent almost every Christmas and Valentine's Day my whole life alone.
Thanks for the great offer from Mr. John Abbot of CLM that I got this wonderful opportunity to write the blog for CLM from a Chinese woman’s point of view. I am sure many members here on CLM are same like me, trying to find a true and serious relationship that will finally lead to marriage. And we all know that internet provides the convenience and short-cut for online dating, which save us from the embarrassment of the blind date or matchmaking when 2 people have to sit face to face (especially for a Chinese-Chinese matchmaking, when you are surrounded by a group of family members or friends, which we will have another topic to introduce the matchmaking in China) and try to rack their brains to find the suitable topics.
This is a summary of a full length article that I've posted in CLM eMagazine under the topic of "Online Dating". We can't yet add links in these blogs but will be able to shortly. Meanwhile I'd suggest that you go to the eMagazine and read the letter that the Scammer, a Nigerian pretending to be American, sent to at least one Chinese woman member. I say one member because only one forwarded the letter but more than one complained about the Scammer, whose username is "john123" and who now resides in Scammer Prison.
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Recently three Dating Review Sites have come out with 3 great reviews of ChinaLoveMatch. You can find them all here:ForeignWifeHappyLife.com
DatingAdvice.com
DatingNews.com
How about going to read these reviews and giving CLM a thumbs up in the comment section?
ForeignWifeHappyLife Interviews John Abbot
In a recent article entitled "Chinese Women For Love and Marriage (Truth vs Stereotypes)" the website ForeignWifeHappyLife.com has done an indepth interview of CLM Managing Director John Abbot. We urge you to go read the whole interview and to add your own comments and insights to John's point of view.
AsianBeauties.com is now AsianDate.com
We all know AsianBeauties.com is a scam site, but what about their reborn selves as AsianDate.com. Still scamming we are sure. There are now three valuable articles to read on the subject.1. AsianDate, AsianBeauties - What's the Difference?
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3. Scam Chinese Dating Sites.
Please continue to G+, Like and Tweet these articles as a way to educate as many people as possible to avoid being scammed.