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A single Chinese colleague of mine, T, who is in his early 30s and from Hong Kong told me recently about a visit he’d made to a Beijing Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) doctor for consultation about his arthritis and the doc’s surprising prescription.
So how does one decide on which city to live in China? Is there a magic formula that can give you the square root of your happy place, or do you just blindfold yourself and use the map of China dartboard routine? I’d like to think that is a medium between those extremes, but from all of the people I have spoken to both in China and here in the U.S. there is no true way to find a perfect place for you in China. Its trial and error really, and from what most have said there are many errors with the trials. You could, of course, be smart and simply take a vacation to China to see that beautiful Chinese girl you’ve been talking to. That way you can see all the splendor of China for yourself or run like hell if need be. That’s the smart way. Then there is my way, which is to fly by the seat of my pants into this whole thing. I can hear you people reading this already grumbling about me being wreckless and probably a few other choice words about my intelligence, but I assure you this is not nearly as crazy as it sounds nor am I as unprepared as most would think.
What’s wrong with this photo? Look closely. You see it now? No? Really? You sure? Well, I don’t see a damn thing wrong with it or her either for that matter. But apparently some people do. Let me introduce you to Rima Fakih, a 24-year-old Arab-American from Michigan who beat out 50 other women to take the 2010 Miss USA title in Las Vegas Sunday night May 16, 2010.
With great sadness we must say goodbye to Richard. He has notified us that his work load is keeping him too busy to be able to keep contributing to his blog, and this will be his last submission. Rich and his beautiful Chinese wife, Rebecaa, are almost like family to us here at CLM, and his blog will be sorely missed. He's promised to keep us posted on how they're doing and we'll pass any news along to you.
Scandal! China Love Match blogger says "Forget about it! Women can be trouble! Forget about it and get a dog!" No, that isn't what I said! (Always be kind to animals, I do say that) All I said was that when doing international online dating you have to be aware of - not only differing cultural values, which is something China Love Match is very helpful with - you have to be aware of the different meanings and "values" males and females put on the same words.
Summer’s here and the time is right for busting barbecues in the street in Beijing and other civic-minded localities. I was sitting at a very small table on very precarious chairs near a friend’s apartment very early Friday morning sharing some cold Tsingtaos and generally solving the world's problems as we watched the late night/early morning bbq crowd ebb and flow around us.
There is an old saying I first heard many years ago as a young State police officer. People, to include myself, would often complain about their job or location and consider a transfer of jobs or move to another in-state city. Invariably, someone older and wiser would say, “Be careful what you ask for, you might just get it.” What does this old saying mean and does it apply to you?
Ok, so let’s quit with the anthropology heading – I am actually just a casual observer rather than some learned professional so I all my comments are coming from my own personal experience rather than some multi-tome study on China – I am sure people will disagree with some of my views, and I welcome that! And that is a little bit about what my next topic is about, how Chinese women might ‘function’ in a ‘community’ sense.
In the first part, I discussed the meaning of Yaunfen, as it is understood in China and as I understand it from a Chinese-leaning western perspective. I also wrote that anyone subscribing to CLM must understand and believe in it to some degree; otherwise, they would not be searching for their future partner here or at any other personals website. We are all hoping to make the connection to and with someone else. Many of the subscribers to CLM or those just visiting have been married before. It is a testament to the desire for love and companionship that any of you are here.
Recently Jiangsu TV has promoted a show called “If you are the one (Fei Cheng Wu Rao)”, which presents blind dates between single male and female. In the show, there is a man who is requested to face 24 girls to answer the questions. The girls might select him to carry on next round or knock him out by putting out the lights. It takes only 5 minutes for each gentleman’s interview. On May 3rd, the show played a British man named Alexander who was strongly recommended by his friends to participate the TV blind date. Eventually, he was out by two major reasons even all the audiences were touched by his humor in such a short time. One was his DJ work, RMB300 per day, the girls thought that it wasn’t a steady job with uncertain incomes. The other was his hobby: retrieve the junks for environmental protection. His bed was one of the recycled garbage. Mr. Le Jia, the commentator of the show, lately stated in his blog that it was a pity that Alexander had been eliminated for the realistic mating preference of 24 girls. He also encouraged Alexander could find a nice Chinese girlfriend who understands and stands by him.
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Everyone on CLM and ALM knows Imi5922 as Imi the Blogger. Through his blogs we have also come to know Zelmaniss, his Bride, as Janessa. Finally, after much effort and expense and being married for some time, Imi and Janessa have received Canada's permission for Janessa to join her husband Imi to live in Canada. You can read their Success Story by clicking on "read more..." below. Meanwhile here are two of many blogs by Imi about Janessa and Imi's relationship:Moments of Our Relationship - At The Merge of Two Rivers
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