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I suppose I am the endless optimist in the mist of the realists. I don’t know why, but I have always looked on the bright side of dark situations and can always see the positive nature of even the worst events. Maybe, this is a very bad flaw to have and I should let go of this shiny happy attitude. I feel however, that this attitude is what has allowed me to succeed in life and to achieve all that is opening up before me now. It has been my ability to adapt to the negative changes around me. My father once told me an ancient Chinese proverb, “He who bends with the wind shall weather the storm, but he who stands like a wall will surely crumble.” I never did find out if this is a true Chinese proverb but it seemed like good advice and I still follow it to this day.
For those of you reading this from the Americas, you may not understand the culture here in China, but you may have experienced similar things. On my day off during the week, Gwynne picked me up at my apartment and told me that she wanted me to meet her best girlfriend. You all know what this means. She is getting her girlfriend to check you out, to see if her best friend thinks you are suitable for her. This is her crucial second opinion.
As I have mentioned before, I am a client of CLM. I have chosen to make my profile invisible because I am in a serious relationship with a beautiful Chinese woman I will call, Gwynne, whom I met here at CLM. When I came to China more than a year ago, I came with the express purpose of building a relationship with a woman I met through another agency. After being together for a year, we decided that we were not a very good match. It was a gradual realization. Language was not the barrier and I sincerely believe that the mismatch was because she was unable to accept what I wanted to share with her; my interests are diverse.
I used to receive some invitations in my yahoo IM. But I am few to chat online in my yahoo.
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These little emails fell into my in-box the other day.... Not sure exactly who created them but I have seen one of two of them before - if you know the website, I'd like to credit it!!
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In China, the word “Foreigner (Lao wai in pinyin)” perhaps makes more sense than in North America. In Canada or United States, the dweller of your neighbourhood are possibly from Asia and Africa and Europe. Even some of them are not American nationality, but you seldom use the word “Foreigner” when you mention them to others, just state “He is Sweden” or “She is Singaporean”.
Turning on my computer this morning I see on Yahoo that a college professor in Nanjing, Ma Yaohai, has been sentenced to 3 ½ years in prison for “group licentiousness” for participating in group sex parties. It’s the first I've heard of the story (one of the drawbacks of being away from China is that you tend to miss all the good stuff), although supposedly the case has attracted huge public interest in China.
Before you, the waves slide in and out of the world forever… By plane, by train, by bus, by boat, by car, by hitchhike, by any means possible, ladies and gentlemen, we have made it to the beach! Introducing, my favorite Tourist Life Zone, my favorite Live Here Forever Zone, my favorite Everything is Swell Zone…….the Tropical Beach! The tropical Sea Coast!
Jasmine appears to be intent on proposing that CLM introduce a Game Player Prison to accompany Scammer Prison. Now before we just casually write off this suggestion, let me say that we don’t take anything Jasmine suggests lightly. Jasmine is a smart lady, a very smart lady, and we highly respect her opinions. Having said that, let me say that we long ago, at the time we introduced Scammer Prison, considered also having a Game Player Prison, and we concluded then that a Game Player Prison is not only practically impossible, but even more importantly is philosophically wrong!
It’s been more than 2 months now since I signed up on CLM and during the past 2 months, I’ve encountered various kinds of guys here. In some way, I feel there are a certain amount of people who just turn the online dating site to be their playground. Generally in my mind, members in their 50s and 60s are more sincere and the same thing does not really apply to the ones in their 30s and 40s, but that is not set in stone, as it is more of my own impression. (I don’t mean to offend members in their 30s and 40s. Just don’t take it too personally.) Here I’d like to present some of the mails I’ve received and they are served more like for your information, and also they are the primitive inspirations for discussing of setting up a game players’ prison. For most of the red alarms here, they are simply and mostly stated from a woman’s point of view and thus if you guys have the similar experiences, you are welcome to share them with all of us. And girls, put aside your shyness, and speak out your minds. Here we go.
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