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In the world of online Chinese and Asian dating there really is nothing quite like them. That's because the blogs are written by real Chinese or Asian women and real Western men, all members of CLM or ALM. The forum is for members to discuss serious cross- cultural issues, and problems relating to long distance international internet dating. But the blogs and forum are about more than that, much more, because we believe that the members' understanding of each other's diverse history, traditions, food, parenting beliefs, and cultural background are incredibly relevant in developing a strong and lasting mutual love. Likewise the sharing of mutual interests, such as travel, cooking, gardening, humour, modes of entertainment, hobbies, crafts, spiritual beliefs, and many other factors are crucial to maintaining a healthy bond. Unlike other dating sites who publish endless fluff that has no value beyond enticing people to join, at and we understand your desire is not simply to meet someone special today, but to join someone special for life. We keep it real, to ensure your newfound Chinese or Asian love lasts forever.
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One nice thing about a five-thousand year old culture is that there are rules. Many of the men on this site — and I’m assuming all of the women—already know the basic Chinese dating rules (which apply to internet dating as well) that I am about to lay out. But some of the guys may not. I had no idea about what follows when I first arrived in China from America. Instead, if I thought about it at all — which I probably did not — I probably assumed that the dating scenarios of our two countries were roughly the same. Boy was I wrong! Given how fundamental these rules are for the endeavor you are embarked upon, it is worth at least one blog post to make explicit some basic information you need to know going in, since ignorance in this area not only wastes your time but puts you at a competitive disadvantage.
Ok, I'm handing over my "man card" for this article. I'm going to delve into my feminine side and express some deeper feelings and insecurities. Some of you guys may cringe reading this. Do not think I haven't been questioning myself if I should even put myself out there for embarrassment and weakening any sort of manliness I have left! I think I just discovered I'm a big-girly-cry-baby! Whaaaaaaaa! :-((
I ran across a strange phenomenon yesterday as I was pondering what to blog about when I had a debate with a Chinese lady about why I would want to stay in China when I live in such a wonderful country like the U.S. She seemed hellbent to get out of China at all costs. This was an interesting thing because until this point all of the Chinese women I have spoken to have all preferred a man to come to live in China.
Ni hao, Bren: I met a man who I have been dating. He called me very late one night recently to invite me over his house. I declined as I feel it was disrespectful and rude after he told me I was a good sexual partner. I was expecting a good relationship from him, but now I am thinking he may not be so sincere as he lead me to believe. One thing that confuses me. How do I distinguish a west (foreign) man's interpretation between
In the USA there is a popular article in the newspapers called, "Dear Abby", an advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name Abigail Van Buren (Abby for short). It still exists today. I figured it's time to create a spin-off advice column of my own!
Here is another item I find curious about China. You also see it in big poster ads in Hong Kong on the subway and in the underground tunnels. It is another magic elixir that will cause you to look like a movie star in very short order. If only it were true then you would see it touted in all the medical journals as the sure fire way to lose that excess fat that typically accumulates around your middle.
One of the most popular magazines in America is Consumer Reports. In its ad-free pages, it provides reviews of hundreds of items, from toothpastes to dishwashers, dog foods to automobiles. The process by which these are arrived at is both simple and elegant: an independent group of examiners tests the products and reports back its findings so that consumers can make better and more informed decisions. The idea for a similar mechanism for dating websites came to me after reading the following forum posting.
Thirteen Days….
Talk about feeling like a flea caught on a mouse being beaten by a large cat, that’s been CLM over the last couple of weeks. Our website’s been experiencing slowdowns and interruptions over that time, culminating in a 48 hour period over Thursday, Friday and Saturday where we were off far more than on. But what was really baffling us was the fact that it wasn’t happening everywhere.
OK, here’s the Scoring Key for the Western Man’s Success Predictor Test for Seeking a Chinese Wife. If you haven’t taken the test yet, please find it on my Blog and take it before reading this. These questions were purely designed to get you thinking past simple dreams and assess how practical they are, as well as realistic for you to achieve.
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Everyone on CLM and ALM knows Imi5922 as Imi the Blogger. Through his blogs we have also come to know Zelmaniss, his Bride, as Janessa. Finally, after much effort and expense and being married for some time, Imi and Janessa have received Canada's permission for Janessa to join her husband Imi to live in Canada. You can read their Success Story by clicking on "read more..." below. Meanwhile here are two of many blogs by Imi about Janessa and Imi's relationship:

Moments of Our Relationship - At The Merge of Two Rivers

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1. AsianDate, AsianBeauties - What's the Difference?

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3. Scam Chinese Dating Sites.

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