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This has been a previous topic of several blogs by several bloggers, including myself, but I believe I may have discovered an answer to the above question, and not the answer I was expecting.
Here’s some brief background and facts on Internet usage in China to give you some insight before continuing with how the great Chinese Matchmaking Box can affect your online dating. China is home to the world’s largest Internet community and usage has quickly grown. Private citizens were only granted access to the Internet as recently as 1995. Then there were only about 2,000 Chinese connected.
"You should give up searching online and just continue your search for love in the REAL world with REAL people. It is a waste of time! Why bother? I have tried it and it's a joke!" I hear so many comments from others who tell me about their friends or family who give such negative advice, but what they do not know is that this is how meeting a new love is done today. This is the future of dating - here and now! We are cutting edge people taking the options beyond the old rituals. They are old-fashioned and closed-minded. But is ONLINE LOVE REAL? Does it exist? I have brought up this topic before and felt it would be good to bring up again and hear your feedback. I'm talking about "Online Love".
I was pleasantly surprised to read the comments to Marriage and Divorce. If it is going to generate response then I think it is valuable to continue this theme. Since we are all at CLM to find a life-mate maybe it is about time someone began writing about culture and differences, if there really are any. One thing I think I can say with some assurance is that most western people believe that what you sow you also reap. That simply means that we believe that there are consequences to our actions and we will be rewarded or damned depending on what we do or do not do.
How good is your English? Got it mastered? Got it very well? Got it just OK? Got your English down just a little bit? If it's a little bit, then you should learn more now, rather than later. I never realized how important this would be. Love is all that matters, right? Well maybe we should not think too hastily. It's been 3 weeks since my Chinese fiancée, Aishan, has come to live with me here in Boston and she was caught off guard how unprepared she felt. She was surprised how little English she could comprehend when someone is talking. There are many accents in America that vary slightly to us Americans, but can strangely sound incomprehensible to a native Chinese. She obviously isn't feeling fluent enough to feel comfortable. I can not stress enough for any man or woman who is willing to begin a life here in America that it is in your best interest to make a huge effort to learn as much English as you possibly can. It will help you adjust easier for such a overwhelming transition.
I have been away for a while but have been checking in every now and then to see what people have been writing on the blogs and forums - one Do Not Change Who You Are!!! in particular caught my eye and I felt I might like to comment on it a bit!
Further to my most recent blog posting entitled “Find Your Chinese Love by Having a Long Term Plan (Part 3)” I’d like to now clarify some points mentioned there about some (not all but SOME) Chinese women. I made the statement that if you start professing great love and commitment to one or even several Chinese woman after only having briefly met her on the internet “all you are doing is guaranteeing yourself that the women you do meet will be among the vast numbers that are under such intense pressure to be married by family, friends and Chinese culture that they will take anyone, whether they truly love him or not. Such a person is far too crippled, emotionally and psychologically, to ever truly "love" you, or to be the type of lifemate that you will love.”
The sands in the hour glass seem to be pouring much quicker these days as I look at the calendar and see that my time is nearly upon me. I feel the anticipation growing with every minute that passes and the frustration of realizing it is not yet time. I go into work wishing to just get the night over with quickly so I can come back home, get online, and sign in to CLM. I’ve had friends who have to tell me to just breathe and relax.
It opens and closes again…the great Chinese Matchmaking Box. Just when you think you understand the secrets inside, it closes again making you more confused than ever. The Box can often beat you into submission until you stop asking why, or even attempting to offer some logical excuse. It reminds me of a joke around the mid-80s in American baseball circles before the Atlanta Braves team became a legitimate championship caliber team;
I’m going to play love guru for the first and only time. It’s because right after I read John’s latest blog my Yahoo home page had a story titled “Are you falling in love too fast?” Since this was partly the theme of John’s blog and I’m a big believer in synchronicity, I clicked on the article. Perhaps the universe was trying to tell me something. God knows I need to hear it. I am as prone as anyone to falling madly in love, acting irrationally and having to live with the fallout. Indeed, I've reached a point where I’d much rather deal with actual nuclear fallout than the shit that hits the fan when what you thought was the real deal heads south. In case you didn’t catch the article, here is a summary with my commentary on how it might apply to internet dating Chinese women. If you haven’t done so, be sure to check out John’s blog as well.
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Everyone on CLM and ALM knows Imi5922 as Imi the Blogger. Through his blogs we have also come to know Zelmaniss, his Bride, as Janessa. Finally, after much effort and expense and being married for some time, Imi and Janessa have received Canada's permission for Janessa to join her husband Imi to live in Canada. You can read their Success Story by clicking on "read more..." below. Meanwhile here are two of many blogs by Imi about Janessa and Imi's relationship:

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