Chinese Women, Asian Women, Online Dating & Things Chinese and Asian
These are the Blogs and Forum of and
In the world of online Chinese and Asian dating there really is nothing quite like them. That's because the blogs are written by real Chinese or Asian women and real Western men, all members of CLM or ALM. The forum is for members to discuss serious cross- cultural issues, and problems relating to long distance international internet dating. But the blogs and forum are about more than that, much more, because we believe that the members' understanding of each other's diverse history, traditions, food, parenting beliefs, and cultural background are incredibly relevant in developing a strong and lasting mutual love. Likewise the sharing of mutual interests, such as travel, cooking, gardening, humour, modes of entertainment, hobbies, crafts, spiritual beliefs, and many other factors are crucial to maintaining a healthy bond. Unlike other dating sites who publish endless fluff that has no value beyond enticing people to join, at and we understand your desire is not simply to meet someone special today, but to join someone special for life. We keep it real, to ensure your newfound Chinese or Asian love lasts forever.
(Showing 1431 to 1440 of 1628) First Previous 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 More... Last
Ok, I'm at a very odd time in my life. I felt I should share with everyone my first month and a half with my fiance and what it has been like. It's been happy, lovely and romantic but also crazy, trying and under pressure. As with anyone meeting someone online there are many things to learn about and if you think you know your wife now.. WAIT till you live with her! There so much more to learn and deal with! :)
I’ve been keeping track of the news and I’m a bit disturbed by the activities by my own government. I don’t really know why the U.S. seems intent on provoking just about any kind of negative response around China. First it starts with antagonizing the already strained Korean situation and now the U.S. working deals with Vietnam as a message to China.
Silence is truly golden to be successful in real dating or online dating, as well as business negotiations. The techniques of learning when to be quiet and the art of Active Listening are usually acquired skills that need to be learned and reinforced through practice to be a successful online dating detective. In Chinese Dating Detective- Part 1-3, I discussed question types and how to begin to use these effectively to avoid using a haphazard approach which is a less than effective strategy.
I have recently been to Shenyang looking into a business opportunity so I have been a bit remiss in updating my blog. I have been thinking about a few things though and one of the CLM members suggested I write about some of my experiences with women since I have been living in China. Do not make the assumption that all women are like the ones in my experiences but you will find some just like I found. Maybe what you read here will help you to avoid my errors?
If you’re a Western single male, then “Yes Virginia, there is a Santa Claus”, but he comes on Chinese Valentine’s Day. It falls always on the 7th day of the 7th month of the Chinese Lunar Calendar, and therefore, like Chinese New Year, its date by our rather boring but reliable Gregorian Calendar varies from year to year. This year (2010), it falls on August 16th. According to Wikipedia it has been referred to in a variety of ways for many centuries it has been known by various names (more on that below) but for several decades now in China it has also been known as “Chinese Valentine’s Day”. To me, this represents a great opportunity for Western men to snag that beautiful Chinese woman on CLM that’s been keeping them awake at nights, so enraptured is he with her.
Police and spy thriller movies, TV shows and books are popular throughout the world. In terms of global popularity, I believe most would agree the Americans and British have the edge in all categories. However, as a twenty-five year veteran and retired law enforcement officer, I can promise you the reality of this work is far different than often portrayed.
Do I ever get homesick in South East Asia? After all, I was a Native New Yorker and -excuse me- "Yes a Big Mac with Coke, Super size it!"... Where was I? Oh yeah, the alien ,unfamiliar culture. Does it - excuse me, - "Yes give me the Colonels Extra Crispy please".
The year BT. The year AT. Before Tsunami, After Tsunami. Not every coastal area and island of Thailand was significantly affected by the devastation. And the stunning beauty of the Phi Phis - the thin yet massive shark finned green mountain islands; the soft sandy beaches, the tropical forests, all that is still intact. So is the sense of being in an isolated island wide tropical garden. So is the sense of floating out there on a green shadowed cliff world far from the mainland.
A popular saying in America has it that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” Some claim that is aiming a little too high. Be that as it may, what about the way to a woman’s heart, in particular, a Chinese woman’s heart? Anyone who has perused the profiles on this internet dating site will know that many women make a point of claiming it is important that their potential partner know and respect Chinese culture. For the truth is that while loving an American woman may not entail being particularly enamored of American culture, there is no doubt that loving a Chinese woman (especailly those who describe themselves as "traditional Chinese women") does indeed mean loving, or at least being very interested in, Chinese culture.
O.K., dear beautiful ladies. Here is my take on what Western men are looking for in a foreign born wife, be it from Southeast Asia or China. But I'm going to present it by talking about America today.
(Showing 1431 to 1440 of 1628) First Previous 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 More... Last
Recent Forum Threads
Magazine Articles Index
CLM Offsite Published Articles
Zelmaniss and Imi5922 - A CLM Success Story
Everyone on CLM and ALM knows Imi5922 as Imi the Blogger. Through his blogs we have also come to know Zelmaniss, his Bride, as Janessa. Finally, after much effort and expense and being married for some time, Imi and Janessa have received Canada's permission for Janessa to join her husband Imi to live in Canada. You can read their Success Story by clicking on "read more..." below. Meanwhile here are two of many blogs by Imi about Janessa and Imi's relationship:

Moments of Our Relationship - At The Merge of Two Rivers

Our Lives Through The Keyhole 键孔里的生活

Three Great Reviews of ChinaLoveMatch
Recently three Dating Review Sites have come out with 3 great reviews of ChinaLoveMatch. You can find them all here:

How about going to read these reviews and giving CLM a thumbs up in the comment section?

More News & Coming Events
ForeignWifeHappyLife Interviews John Abbot
In a recent article entitled "Chinese Women For Love and Marriage (Truth vs Stereotypes)" the website has done an indepth interview of CLM Managing Director John Abbot. We urge you to go read the whole interview and to add your own comments and insights to John's point of view. is now
We all know is a scam site, but what about their reborn selves as  Still scamming we are sure.  There are now three valuable articles to read on the subject.

1. AsianDate, AsianBeauties - What's the Difference?

2. Scam Sites - What About

3. Scam Chinese Dating Sites.

Please continue to G+, Like and Tweet these articles as a way to educate as many people as possible to avoid being scammed.