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In the world of online Chinese and Asian dating there really is nothing quite like them. That's because the blogs are written by real Chinese or Asian women and real Western men, all members of CLM or ALM. The forum is for members to discuss serious cross- cultural issues, and problems relating to long distance international internet dating. But the blogs and forum are about more than that, much more, because we believe that the members' understanding of each other's diverse history, traditions, food, parenting beliefs, and cultural background are incredibly relevant in developing a strong and lasting mutual love. Likewise the sharing of mutual interests, such as travel, cooking, gardening, humour, modes of entertainment, hobbies, crafts, spiritual beliefs, and many other factors are crucial to maintaining a healthy bond. Unlike other dating sites who publish endless fluff that has no value beyond enticing people to join, at and we understand your desire is not simply to meet someone special today, but to join someone special for life. We keep it real, to ensure your newfound Chinese or Asian love lasts forever.
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And then, there are the outright psychos and thieves you meet while traveling. They'll steal your passport, your money, your electronics, your brand new shoes. They'll scare you with their smiles. It is rare to meet them, but it happens.
Since I’ve been a member of CLM I have encountered some of the most beautiful and intelligent women this world has to offer. Once the blog and forum started, I started hearing some pretty tough stories about some of the negative things to expect from Chinese women and I must admit, I have had none of these troubles I had been warned of. As a matter of fact, the Chinese women I have met on this international dating site set a bar so high that I don’t think I’ll ever look at other woman the same again.
Chinese men from all socio-economic classes (except the filthy rich) seem to be pushed into the Chinese Matchmaking Box. However, unlike many Chinese women, they are not so willing to stay shut-in the box, much less locking the top. By 2020, the State Population and Family Planning Commission estimates, as many as 30 million men won’t be able to find Chinese wives. Around the country now, many of these reported 24 million Chinese bachelors are hard at work to avoid that trap.
Oh, THE DRAMA! :) If you read my last blog you will recall that I was given an ultimatum. I recommend you read my previous blog before reading further. Frankly, I was not too happy with my woman's demand of me quitting CLM or she is going back to China... What does a man do when he's pushed to the wall?
Ken Silver, a blogger on this site, has written an article entitled “What do western males look for in a foreign wife?” Here, I would like to stand at the other side and discuss, “What do Chinese women look for in a western husband?”
If you've read any of my blogs you will notice I am a little 'negative' of China at times... it is probably an 'natural' thing because most people are conditioned to see the world though their own set of eyeglasses - 'rose-tinted' where you come from and maybe a little 'steamy and grimy' in other places!
I held off posting this blog article for a while, but felt it was important to share and learn with everyone here. In my last blog I talked about making decisions. A short time ago, I had to face a new tough decision. One that not only affects me and my life, but my future at ChinaLoveMatch (CLM). I was given an ultimatum by my fiancée. Choose between sharing with everyone here at CLM being a writer, or choosing a life with my future wife. The end of the phone call went like this, "...You quit CLM or I go back to China!" ...CLICK!
So I want to share with you a cautionary tale for people living in China and people wishing to travel here - take out health/travel insurance!
That’s the title of a photo spread I came across while doing my daily reading of the Chinese blogosphere and wanted to share with CLM members. Actually it seems CLM might be able to use it as part of an ad campaign. The article consists of a series of photographs of a particularly beautiful Chinese woman with a variety of potential suitors. Supposedly representative of the dating options available to Chinese women today, the characters go by such names as The Player, The Matchmakers, The Noveau Riche, 2nd Generation Rich, The Blue Collar, The Professor, The Freak, The Perv, The Queen, The Guy with OCD, The Teenager, and The Classy Guy (The Vendor). Rather than have me describe the various pictures included in the spread, it’s best just to click on the link below to the original article, although I have included with this post the group photo that went along with the article.
My Blog today will cover a couple of topics. The first involves a pretty substantial evil that exists here in China which the government is trying to clean up. The second one involves what seem to me to be some pretty quirky Chinese greetings, so quirky that I’d appreciate some response from the Chinese members explaining how they think these greetings came about.
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Everyone on CLM and ALM knows Imi5922 as Imi the Blogger. Through his blogs we have also come to know Zelmaniss, his Bride, as Janessa. Finally, after much effort and expense and being married for some time, Imi and Janessa have received Canada's permission for Janessa to join her husband Imi to live in Canada. You can read their Success Story by clicking on "read more..." below. Meanwhile here are two of many blogs by Imi about Janessa and Imi's relationship:

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