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I often feel sorry for the poor ladies trying to learn English. For those that DO want to go and live in a western country with their partners, learning at least SOME English is a must.

You can play Presidential Campaign 2016 as one of two characters. Either Preacher Hillary or as the Trumpanzee.

It was sunset as I drove through the congested toll roads of Bangkok in the rented Hilux. The setting red sun shimmered and reflected on the plate glass of the high rise downtown buildings. It was going to take several hours to reach Noi’s home town of Kampheang Phet. I had the foresight to bring my GPS with me from England so I was confident that I would not get lost. Progress was slow on the toll roads, ironically called expressways, partly owing to the time of day as it was rush hour. Partly, owing to toll booths only being about two miles apart. I would stop at one and pay. In no time at all, I was forced to stop and pay at the next booth! And, the one after that!

I don't want to sound like a boring old fart, but it's only when you find yourself having to teach a subject, that you find out all the strange bits.

'Are there any decent bars around here?' asked my new colleague. 'You don't drink', I replied. 'Yeah well it's conversation and meeting people that I'm interested in', he said.

I was already thinking of throwing a "doing business in China" oriented blog in here, and then a friend sent me this and I decided that this was more to the point than what I had planned on writing. You need to pay very careful attention to this because there is an important point here that everyone planning to start doing business in China or with Chinese businessmen must understand. It is also relevant often enough in negotiating your future with the Chinese woman you are dating and considering as your life partner.

The first few days in Thailand were perfect. I loved everything about it. The weather, the beaches, the food and Noi. Every day was an easy day just relaxing, eating in restaurants and a few beers in a bar. I was mindful that this was a holiday feeling. I was determined not to be seduced by the vacation atmosphere. There are no responsibilities when on vacation and dating a new, beautiful Asian woman. The hard yards come later when there are decisions to be made about serious matters such as accommodation, location and in our case - what to do about Kamon, Noi’s niece. Those things could wait. I was still in holiday mode.

Every member on CLM, whether male or female, has their reasons for being here. Some, like me for instance, are not particularly interested in meeting other western women due to the 'been-there-done-that so let's try something new', kind of approach. I know of other male members here who share that attitude, but we all have our own reasons.

The remainder of the day took in all the sights of the southern end of Phuket island. Che drove us to the Big Buddha, Wat Chalong and Rawai Beach. It was a pleasant and memorable day out. The only drawback was that it was difficult to talk to Noi one on one when surrounded by her friends and the kids. I guess this was a part of Asian dating culture. She appeared to be happy so that made me happy too.

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