A twenty something single small town Guangdong girl, now living in Guangzhou, Victoria comes from worker/farmer family in which she grew up with two brothers. A Technical University grad, she is fascinated by the ways westerners think and act. With considerable irreverence, she shares her experiences with both real life and online dating from the POV of a member of the 1980’s Me Generation (as coined by Time Magazine) living in fast growing China.
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Sex &Relationships 性和情

2546 Views | 22 Comments | 1 Articles | 1/8/2012 4:43:37 PM
I asked one of my close friends: “Why did you divorce after 25 years marriage?” He said: “She is bossy she is too uptight she is too arrogant… But most important she doesn’t like sex. If she just like sex more I will bear the rest.” I looked into his eyes, full of sadness and frustration. I believed every word he said. I understood him and felt bad that it was really the truth. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Dating Fun  

All Relationships Should Begin This Way所有恋情都应如此开始

1278 Views | 9 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/24/2011 5:14:17 AM
“I’m scared in case I hurt you… Maybe we are both that lucky... But I really do not want to hurt you...” He said. Read more…

LOVE IS A LEGEND

641 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2011 9:51:57 PM
Love is a legend. It’s not common. It should be locked in a crystal box and kept away from noises and dusts. Nowadays it gets used and abused quite often. Most people don’t even know what it is. They talk about it; they say it and they think they have it. No, they don’t have it; they are using its name to get what they want. Read more…

Happy Jail Time

863 Views | 8 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/8/2011 10:14:04 AM
Time fly by fast. Again, it’s the end of the year. I got messages from both of my brothers. They wonder if I’m going home this year. I’m thinking about it. If I go, it’s jail time. If I don’t go, I will feel guilty. Either way, I’m screwed. Read more…

Rejection

1708 Views | 25 Comments | 3 Articles | 10/21/2011 7:55:28 PM
I’ve got to learn how to reject people properly or I’m just going to piss off more and more men. My biggest fears are anger, war and disease. Death is ok. If one day I got killed in a car accident that would be perfect. I can donate all of my useable body parts. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Dating Fun  

Gold Diggers

2192 Views | 25 Comments | 2 Articles | 10/9/2011 12:27:42 PM
Am I a gold digger myself? I never have doubt of my answer to this question but it’s not the first time that I’ve been questioned of. Ah, it’s a price every girl has to pay if she attracted to old fat men. LOL… In case any of you find yourself fit into any of these things I write below, please laugh instead of taking it as an offense. I’ve been pissing off quite a few people lately. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Dating Fun  

Good Guy

2643 Views | 36 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/19/2011 11:00:43 PM
I dated a bunch of guys but only had two long term relationships. Technically I don’t’ know a lot of guys well. And I don’t have a role model of a good guy. The way I grew up, if a man doesn’t beat up his wife or have a second wife, he is a good guy. If he doesn’t gamble or get drunk every day,plus a steady job he is a perfect husband. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Dating Fun  

Wrong Guy

1816 Views | 15 Comments | 2 Articles | 9/9/2011 8:02:47 PM
I have been very busy and crazy lately, but mostly lazy to miss out for such a long time. But I do work hard and party hard at the same time. I have been partying so hard because my therapist told me I don’t need a therapist which makes her a great therapist. So I guess I’m just lonely like always. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Dating Fun  

Am I Looking for a Western Man in Particular?

2481 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/10/2011 8:40:13 PM
This question was brought up before by my friends and families. I didn’t give them any answer because I never really thought about it. A few weeks ago, a blogger here asked me this question again. Read more…

How My Chinese Dating Cross-Culture Relationship Crashed and Burned Part 8: The Aftermath (The End)

2184 Views | 13 Comments | 1 Articles | 5/28/2011 12:24:55 AM
The story comes to here, I don’t want to talk about it any more. I want it out of my system then I can move on. I tried my best but it didn’t work out. I had nothing to regret. I spent a lot of time and energy on him but I don’t get what I expect. Read more…
Tags : 婚恋   Online Dating  
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