People say, outstanding person should be able to find balance in injustice, enrich in modestly, move ahead in compromise, have harvest while giving up, Perfect himself in humility. It means, life is not fair, great injustice, so we need to find balance by ourselves; to be very modest, must be tolerance; Ostensibly a compromise, but in fact it is advanced, learning thing; Learn to give up. But if you give up, must want to have a harvest, Or, don't give up so easily; To be modest, in modest we will perfect ourselves!
It is early summer night here, the weather is a little sultry, quiet garden also seems to be a little bit restless. Such a night, I have no sleep feeling. I open the windows, face to the north and the south, and look up in the night sky, the light star fluttering over. Don't know why, but my heart dims ageless suddenly. In the daytime in the sun, for life, for ideal lampoon, the glamorous woman fights hard, but in an instant, feel a bit fragile. I sit down at the table, try to search the American film, Crazy Heart. I have seen the film twice. And I like the music so much. Looking at the warm rames,listening to the sad songs. The beautiful countryside, always has its own music. With the lilting guitar music, I think of a word, I often say to others, Your attitude determines your altitude, detail decides success or failure. And today, I read a person's words accidentally. She said, a women, how to treat others, is actually in shaping herself; a woman is an attitude, happiness is a kind of capability."
She is 40, a reporter. She is self-confidence and beautiful. She describes woman all-round with a positive attitude. Woman is an attitude, is not the pursuit of so-called unreal feeling. She always uses a little higher to see a future world, it is actually a kind of requirements. Independent, but not too strong. Smart, but do not lose clever. Self-confidence, but not bumptious. Beautiful, but not ethereal blundering. Only we know how much positive energy this woman will bring us, and how much warmth and moving she will give our life.
Independent, is a must for us to maintain self dignity, is a way to seek freedom. Intelligent, is we discern the feeling, let us awake, dependably, and enjoyable. Tolerance, is what we know to respect other people's choice, also know to agree to the lives of others. Calm, is our efforts but not whimsical state, let us live awake and sincerely. And beauty, is our eternal pursuit, is a seemingly simple, but an insisted quality life.
And I appreciate most, is her attitude for love---- Looking for equivalence matching. Hope you through boundless experienced difficulty to find him, neither more nor less. Because of too much more or too much less, it will tire yourself. It is very philosophical.
What kind of attitude is a woman on earth? What to love, how to love, how to treat life, to treat others heart, maybe we should try to taste it slowly with heart.
Today, I had my hair cut， shorter, the whole body and soul feel a lot easier. I will remember to look in the mirror every day, in the morning, and don't forget to give myself a big smile.
Because I won’t disappoint the name: woman .
The woman is a kind of attitude.
女人是一种态度
―――写于2011-6-5
人们说， 优秀的人应该能委屈中平衡、虚怀中充实、妥协中前行、放弃中收获、谦卑中完善。就是说：生活是不公平的，非常不公平，我们需要自己找平衡；虚怀若谷，就是要有肚量；表面上看起来是妥协了，但实际上是前进了，学到了东西啊；要学会放弃，放弃了，要有收获才行，不要轻言放弃；要谦虚，在谦虚中完善自己！
初夏的夜，天气有些闷热，宁静的花园似乎也多了一份躁动，这样的夜，让我不忍睡去。我把南北两个窗户打开，抬头仰望着那一片深邃的夜空，淡淡的星光飘曳而来。不知道为什么，心却一下子黯黯然。白天阳光下那个为了生活疲于奔命，为了理想努力打拼的光鲜女人，刹那间显的有些脆弱。回头坐在桌旁，在网上搜索到了一部美国电影《疯狂的心》，第二次看这部电影。看着暖暖的画面，听着忧伤的歌曲。美丽的乡村，总有自己的音乐。在轻快的吉他音乐声中，我想起自己经常对他人说的一句话，态度决定高度，细节决定成败。今天，偶然读到一个人的话，“女人如何对待他人，实际上是在塑造自己；女人是一种态度，幸福是一种能力。”
这句话出自一个40岁的女人。她，自信而美丽，用一种积极的态度全方位阐解女人。女人是一种态度，并非是为了追求所谓的虚幻感情，永远用高一点的眼光看未来世界，其实是对自己的一种要求。独立，但不强势；聪明，却不失乖巧；自信，又不盲目自大；美丽，而不轻飘浮躁。只有我们自己知道，这样的女人态度会带有多少积极主动的能量，会给我们的生命带来多少温暖和感动。
独立，是我们维护自我尊严的必须，是寻求自由的途径；聪慧，是我们洞悉世事的感悟，让我们清醒、塌实，而又乐在其中；宽容。是我们知道尊重别人的选择，也懂得认同别人的生活；坦然，是我们努力奋斗却不异想天开的状态，让我们活得清醒而真诚；而美丽，则是我们永远追求，是一项看似简单，却要无期坚持的一种品质。
而我最欣赏的，是她爱情的态度——寻找对等的匹配。希望你穿越茫茫人海历尽千辛万苦而找到的他，不高也不低。因为高了低了，都会把自己累着。很有哲理。
女人究竟是一种什么态度？爱什么，怎样去爱，怎么对待生活，怎么对待他人，不妨慢慢用心品味。
今天，我把头发剪短，整个人感觉轻松许多。我得记住，每天清晨起床照镜子时，不要忘了给自己一个灿烂的微笑。
因为我不会辜负这个名字：女人。
女人是一种态度。
正因为太难，所以，你一旦拥有了一份稳定而自信的态度，你就是优秀的。